Everyone walks into marriage with good expectations.
However, there are some people who will lose love in the process of walking, and they will be separated in the process of walking.
Whether it's love or not, signs can be found in behavior.
As you enter middle age, if your partner exhibits the following three behaviors, it means that your relationship has come to an end and it's time to re-examine your life.
One. There was a hesitation and vacillation about the economy.
Love is in, money is in"This is often said. Although money is not the whole of love, if you are unwilling to give money, or if you deviate from your original intention in money, you can definitely say that you are not loving.
Mei realizes that her husband has problems when she finds out that he has been unfaithful about money.
My former husband always gave me all his earnings, and even when my friends joked that he had "a pants pocket that's cleaner than his face," he still laughed smugly.
However, three years ago, Xiaomei first discovered that her husband often hid some extra income. Then, he took advantage of the death of the old man in his family to regain economic power.
Subsequently, Xiaomei noticed that her husband's generosity in family expenses had significantly decreased.
She immediately sensed that something was wrong behind the scenes.
After careful investigation, the results were exactly what she expected.
The foundation of marriage lies in material conditions, and the economic foundation determines the formation of family relations.
When a person starts to have some reservations about the financial aspect of his pillow person, it means that he has started to get tired of the other person and start thinking about his own interests. It also means that he has lost his loyalty to the relationship.
Two. Appears indifferent and shows no attention to the other person.
When Dahua's friend implicitly reminded her that her husband had some problems outside, Dahua thought carefully about her life with her husband and understood that her friend's words were true.
Because she found that her husband hadn't taken the initiative to communicate with her about in-depth and nutritious topics for a long time, Dahua was dissatisfied.
I carefully checked our chat history and found that every time I took the initiative to chat with him, he never took the initiative to contact me.
Whenever I told him something, he always simply replied "yes". For example, when I tell him I'm going to have dinner with a client in the evening, he doesn't ask what time it is, he doesn't ask who's going with him, and he doesn't care when he'll be back.
All of his actions send the same message: I don't care and I don't care, no matter what your status is.
The ideal emotional state between husband and wife is to be able to communicate endlessly.
Talking about trivial things about family or life, or even some small arguments, means wanting to share with the other person, wanting to talk to the other person, wanting to be with the other person.
The flow of feelings and the existence of love are hidden behind this.
When feelings show neglect of the other person, lack of communication, and apathy, it indicates that the relationship between two people is on the verge of breakdown.
I don't care what you do, and you don't have to care what I'm doing.
When the marriage is cold and ignored, it means that the relationship has become cold.
You are rejected by the other party, and the other person even wants to leave you.
Three. An excessively harsh, fastidious attitude will ignore the good in others.
In a couple's relationship, in the end, we have to face the inadequacy of the other half.
As long as both people love each other, they will understand and tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, giving each other the utmost respect and understanding.
When the relationship is gone, we tend to be picky and critical of our partner. Even if it's a trivial matter, we will take the opportunity to vent our emotions without being vexatious.
When Lao Zhang found out that his wife was cheating, he began to find fault and accuse her unprincipledly.
He tries to do housework, but gets accusations from his wife that he doesn't do well enough. But if he doesn't do the housework, his wife will rebuke him for being lazy.
On the day of the Qixi Festival, he forgot about buying gifts for his wife, and was reprimanded by his wife. A month later, they had their wedding anniversary, and this time he bought the latest lipstick for his wife, only to be ridiculed by her again, saying that he didn't make much money and spent money like water.
No matter what he does, his wife always finds out what the problem is.
It wasn't until later that he realized that his wife had long since grown tired of him and was tired of the home.
She made many unreasonable troubles, but they only intensified the emotions of the divorce.
The core of marriage is to trust each other, hold hands, share all that is positive, and endure difficulties and challenges together.
If there is a lack of trust, then there will be more nitpicking than praise, more annoyance than pleasure, and more indifference than communication. This means that the marriage has become worthless.
The fate between husband and wife has come to an end.