In rural areas, the preference for women over men persists, which makes some older women suffer from various problems when they return home.
Recently, a 31-year-old Xiaofang returned to her hometown in the countryside after a year of work, but was disliked by her parents because she was not married, and the story of arranging for her to sleep in the firewood room caused heated discussions among netizens.
Xiaofang is an ordinary working woman who left her hometown a year ago to work in the city and earned some money, but because she was busy with work and had no time to talk about friends, she was not married yet.
When she returned to her hometown, she found that her parents' attitude towards her had changed a lot. It turned out that her parents felt that she was 31 years old and not married, and that she would be gossiped about and that she had caused them a lot of pressure.
The reason they gave was that the younger brother was married and they were worried that the younger brother's daughter-in-law would have an opinion.
So, they arranged for Xiaofang to sleep in the firewood room.
The firewood room was in tatters and dust. Made her feel very uncomfortable.
Not only did she have no bed, but Xiaofang had to clean it herself before she could move in.
Seeing her standing in front of the firewood room full of "garbage", netizens were in tears.
Xiaofang's experience has attracted the attention and heated discussions of netizens.
Some netizens think that Xiaofang's parents are too much and should not let her sleep in the firewood room, but should try their best to help her find a suitable partner and let her get married as soon as possible.
However, some netizens questioned why Xiaofang didn't get married, thinking that she might have problems with herself, which led to no man willing to marry her. These remarks made Xiaofang feel very sad and helpless.
In fact, Xiaofang is not alone.
In rural areas, many older women face similar difficulties.
Some girls are unable to find a suitable partner to marry because their family conditions are not good, or their own conditions are not good enough.
Once you pass the age of 25, you will be considered a "leftover woman" and will be subject to all kinds of discrimination and pressure.
Some girls are even forced to marry a man they don't like because of this and live a miserable life.
Of course, we cannot deny the existence of the phenomenon of preference for women over men in rural areas, but we should also see that this concept is gradually changing.
More and more girls are starting to receive higher education and skills training, and have their own careers and life circles.
They are no longer bound by traditional family roles and have more choice and freedom.
At the same time, we must also see that incidents such as older women returning to their hometowns and being arranged to sleep in a firewood room are not common.
Not all girls go home and are warmly received and cared for by their families.
There is a saying that the road to your mother's house is paved with money.
Not only older women, but even if you are married and capable, your parents may not necessarily welcome you.
Some divorced women are even disgusted by their parents, and they can't go home even during the Chinese New Year, so they can only be alone.
These girls may face some pressure and difficulties, but they can also overcome difficulties and live happily through their own efforts and perseverance.
In closing, I would like to say that we should respect everyone's choices and rights, whether in urban or rural areas.
Older women also have their own values and the right to pursue happiness.
We cannot discriminate against them or treat them unfairly because they are old, unmarried, etc.
Instead, we should encourage them to pursue their dreams and happiness with greater support and help.
As a netizen said: "The leftover women are not leftover, but because they have not found a suitable partner to marry for various reasons." They also have their own dreams and the right to pursue happiness. ”
Let's cheer for these older women!
Cheers to all the despised women too!