Wen Lingling.
Tell me my story, I have been married for 21 years, my children are in college, I don't know how much the other party's salary is, how much is the annual income, and I never ask.
In the past, when the child was young, the living expenses were 500, then it rose to 1000, and then it rose to 1500, but since the child went to college, he felt that the child did not need money when he was not at home, and the living expenses were not given.
When he is at home, he doesn't go on a business trip to buy vegetables every day, what to eat, he buys it himself, I am responsible for helping him clean it, I usually rarely eat meat, fish and chicken, I prefer to eat vegetables, sometimes he buys as much as I eat, without I buy it myself.
My salary is enough for my own daily expenses, and when I used to go to work, he asked me to pay him 1,000 yuan, and after a few years, I stopped paying.
I don't think I have enough to spend, sometimes I have to buy clothes, buy clothes for my children, usually give my children pocket money, etc., he never gave me an extra penny, just because he had given me five hundred, one thousand, one thousand five living expenses before.
Now when we quarrel, he said that in the past 20 years, I have saved at least 200,000 yuan for the living expenses he gave me, and when my children were young, I was full-time, and then when my children were older, I started to work.
I work a little salary all subsidize the family, I don't know where I got the money to save, no one can believe that I am a person in his 40s, now all the bank cards add up to less than 2000 yuan, the child's father is 5 years older than me, I now hope that he is healthy, don't get sick, because I really have no money.
The older I get, the more I feel that money is really important, and without money, it is really difficult to move an inch, and without money, I really can't guarantee my life.
Many times, we think that as long as we take one step at a time, but when we really encounter things, we can't take out the money ourselves, so we really have no confidence and feel even more ashamed.
When one day, when the family is sick and needs money urgently, when the children go to school and need all kinds of expenses, when they encounter something difficult and need money to turnover, if you have money, these can be easily survived, if you have no money, then these are all worse.
Money is needed everywhere in life, there is nothing that is without money, people live, not only themselves, but also the family behind you, you need to take on family responsibilities, you will find that how much money is not enough to spend, and the money you earn is far from enough.
There is a saying that those who don't care about making money are people who have not been really poor, and once a person is really poor, he knows how important money is and how important it is to make money.
Therefore, we all have to work hard to make money, and only when we earn money can we protect our lives and make ourselves live with confidence.
When you have money, you don't have to reach out to others to ask for money, and you don't have to look at other people's faces, but you can buy whatever you want, and you don't have to care about other people's opinions.
We need to spend money on everything, and we will encounter the blows of life from time to time, and we can't compete with life, so we can only let ourselves work hard to make money, and let ourselves save a little more, so that we can have a sense of security.
Don't always count on others, but rely on yourself, work hard to create your own life, and happiness must always be fulfilled by yourself.
The best way to live in life is to make good money, so that you can live with confidence.
On the road of life, all the hardships you have endured, the tiredness you have suffered, and all the efforts you have made will eventually achieve yourself.
When we are still struggling, we must work hard to maintain our financial independence in order to live a better life.
Takeshi Kitano said: Although it is hard, I will still choose that kind of hot life.
Life is difficult, life is not easy, and making money is even harder, but no one is easier than whom, everyone is busy begging for life, we all have to live well, strive to change our current situation, overcome difficulties, and make our lives better.
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