The "strange phenomenon" at the class reunion, 3 kinds of people are on call, and 3 kinds of people are not invited!
The strange phenomenon of class reunions: You can find these three kinds of people, and you can't come to these three kinds of people no matter how many times you invite them.
With the development of reality, the classmates who have been with us for many years have also begun to have their own careers and families. Compared with the complexity of today's society, the simple friendship between classmates is also more nostalgic. In order to continue this friendship, some people often organize class reunions, however, at class reunions, we will encounter a strange phenomenon: some people call **, and some people don't invite them, what's going on?
i.You will meet these three types of people.
1 People who value the friendship of their classmates.
In life, there is a kind of person who particularly appreciates the friendship between classmates, and he believes that the friendship between classmates is the purest and not mixed with any feelings. Compared to the hypocritical emotions of now, the friendship between classmates is also more memorable. Instead of going to those hypocritical dinners or socializing, it is better to go to class reunions to make people more nostalgic.
2 Those who have money and leisure.
As they get older, some people also have their own careers and even achieve financial freedom. In this case, they have money and leisure, and once they receive an invitation to a class reunion, they will not hesitate to participate. After all, these people attend class reunions to pass the time.
3 People who only like to socialize.
People who like to socialize like to go to class reunions. Because they can meet their old classmates who have been separated for a long time, and if they have a good chat, it will even be of great help to their future development. After all, the emotions of today's society are very complex, and in such a complex and nostalgic environment, reliving the good times again can make people feel refreshed.
Secondly, why don't these three kinds of people come.
1 People who are busier at work.
People who are busy with work don't have time to go to meetings, not because they don't want to, but because they don't have time. Work alone is hectic enough for them, let alone meetings. Some people may think that these people are more pretentious and deliberately don't go to meetings. In fact, work and family alone have already exhausted them physically and mentally, and they have no energy to deal with other things.
2 is not a good combination.
For those who have a bad relationship with their classmates and are reluctant to go to class reunions, you must know that class reunions are not simply missing classmates, but a way to show off and strengthen your network. Life itself is not so easy, if your former classmates look down on you, it will cause a great blow to your body and mind, and even induce depression and other emotions. Therefore, in order not to increase their mental blockage, these people will not go if they can.
3 People who work in special occupations.
People with special occupations are not suitable for meetings, and civil servants are like that. Civil servants serve the society and the public, so they should establish their own image. If, in the course of attending a meeting, they are photographed by smart people and put online, their careers are likely to be interrupted, so to avoid this problem, they will try to minimize attending meetings.