Some marriages in this world either erupt in forbearance or die in despair.
When her mother-in-law called, Ayu was busy putting on the washed curtains.
Ayu, let's go back to my hometown for the New Year this year, your father and I want to be together. On the other end of the phone, the mother-in-law said.
Ayu paused for 2 seconds, hesitating whether to tell her mother-in-law the truth. But in the end, she decided to grieve herself and found a relatively decent reason to refuse.
Mom, Tuan Tuan's dad has to work until he is twenty-eight, and I'm not sure when he will be able to return to his hometown. Also, I've been in poor health since the last time I had a sun, so I don't think I'll go back this year. ”
Just go home and stay for a few days, and you should be fine with a good rest. We hadn't seen Tuan Tuan for a year, and we all wanted to see him. ”
In all fairness, her mother-in-law is a very good elder, and Ayu does not reject going back to her hometown. But at this moment, she really has words of suffering.
The root of everything is in Ayu's husband Chen Liang.
Ayu and Chen Liang were introduced to each other, and they were both older young people at that time. Out of the urgency of being urged to marry by his family, after 1 year of dating, Ayu and Chen Liang received the certificate.
There are no wedding photos and no wine, these Ayu can accept them, but Chen Liang didn't even buy a pair of rings.
After a few years, Ayu realized that in fact, Chen Liang didn't love her from the beginning, and only felt that she was a suitable marriage partner.
Ayu was tiptoeing and struggling to hang the curtains up, while Chen Liang looked at his mobile phone and was indifferent.
You may wonder why Ayu didn't ask Chen Liang to help?
In fact, it's not that Ayu doesn't want to ask him to help, but if he does, he may not be able to help.
From the initial expectation to countless disappointments, Ayu has accumulated a lot of disappointments, and has also grown a pair of cold and hard armor.
That night, Ayu sent another message to her mother-in-law, euphemistically expressing her intention not to go home. The mother-in-law expressed understanding, but emphasized more that they wanted to see the child, insisting that she go home for the New Year.
Ayu really had no choice but to talk to him.
Mom, I didn't want to talk to you about this during the Chinese New Year, it made you worry. Some time ago, I had a quarrel with Chen Liang, and he scolded me in front of Tuan Tuan that I was not from this family and asked me to move out.
He has said this more than once, and a few times he even exploded, which is really sad.
If you can't go out to work with your children to earn money, should you be scolded like this?If my mother knew that I was living such a life, I don't know how distressed she would be. He scolded me like this, and I still went back with a shy face, does it make sense?
Mom, I'm sorry for making you sad, but I still decided to spend the New Year with Tuan Tuan Tuan and not go anywhere. ”
The mother-in-law replied: "Ayu, you have a hard time taking care of the children, and we all understand it. Chen Liang said the wrong thing, I will criticize him, I believe he is also unintentional, you are generous, the couple must find a way to communicate more. Come back. ”
Ayu cried for a while, her mood had stabilized, and she replied, "Mom, thank you for your understanding." You have taken children and know that it is very hard to take care of children, but in Chen Liang's opinion, taking care of children at home is happiness.
If I hadn't been generous, this family would have been scattered a long time ago. It's not that I don't want to communicate, it's that I can't communicate at all.
After being married for so many years, as soon as he came back, he looked at the mobile phone and computer, and when I talked to him, he was reluctant to put down the mobile phone. How can you communicate like this?
In marriage, Chen Liang is too immature, and he still lives under your wings. If he doesn't grow, you can help protect him, isn't he even more immature?”
After saying these words, Ayu's whole person was much more relaxed.
She wanted to save Chen Liang's face, but after thinking about it, she thought about itIn the years of marriage, she has been thinking about him and her children, but she has never considered herself.
This year, let's live for yourself once.
Not long after sending the message, my mother-in-law called Chen Liang.
Mom, I can't force her if she doesn't go back. You don't care about that person, she's just fine. Chen Liang's tone was impatient and disdainful.
Ayu heard it in another room, and her mood was as calm as water.
In other words, Ayu has been completely disappointed in Chen Liang. What he said or what he did didn't matter to Ayu.
In the past 6 years of marriage, Ayu has devoted almost all her life to her family and children.
She sympathized with Chen Liang's difficulty in going to work to support her family, and she did everything she could at home, sometimes she was busy until eleven or twelve o'clock in the middle of the night, and she was still mopping the floor and folding clothes.
But what about Chen Liang?He plays on his phone and games as if these chores have nothing to do with him.
finally called him to wash the dishes, the bottom of the bowl was oily, the stove was messy, and Ayu had to rework.
Ayu is too stupid, stupid enough to be frugal for her family, and stupid enough to endure these grievances countless times.
The mother-in-law said that Chen Liang had no mouth, this was not a mouthful, it was obviously a contempt and humiliation for the other half.
In the living room, the mother-in-law said to her grandson Tuan Tuan on the other end of the mobile phone: "Tuan Tuan, go back to your hometown for the New Year." ”
5-year-old Tuan Tuan replied while playing with toys: "Grandma, I want to spend the New Year here with my mother." ”
Ayu didn't expect Tuan Tuan to answer like this, she didn't teach him this.
For a while, Ayu's heart was a little warm. Her Tuan Tuan is really an angel sent by God to love her.
This incident finally ended with Chen Liang returning to his hometown alone.
The new year is coming, and Ayu decides to plan her life well.
The epidemic has been released, and when the children's kindergarten opens, she will find two part-time jobs to do, which will not delay the pick-up and drop-off of the children, but also have an income.
As for the divorce agreement, Ayu has already prepared it and is waiting for the day when it will come in handy.
But before the real divorce, she wants to try her best to be stronger.
When she has enough financial ability, she Ayu will definitely leave with her waist straight!