"Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon. "The ancients have said that in life, we should have fun in time and not waste time. However, in real life, we are often bothered by all kinds of trivial things and cannot enjoy the beauty of life to the fullest. Especially for actors, their lives are often full of challenges and opportunities, which require constant struggle and pursuit. However, in the process, they also need to face many pressures and difficulties, and they need to constantly adjust their mindset and lifestyle.
In the recent hit drama "Xiaoman Life", we saw a typical example. He Jiaru and Ye Yifan in the play are a young couple who are busy with trivial tasks such as buying a house, giving birth to children, and taking care of the elderly. Among them, He Jiaru's mother is a very sober woman, she always gives support and encouragement to her daughter when she encounters difficulties, and also pays great attention to her own quality of life.
In the play, He Jiaru's father-in-law was hospitalized because he was sick and needed to spend a lot of medical expenses. The couple struggled to raise funds, while He's mother was reluctant to cause trouble to her daughter and son-in-law. She even put down her body and went to her ex-husband to help raise money. Although this behavior may seem incredible, it shows the love and care that a mother has for her daughter.
And in real life, Xue Shujie is also a very sober woman. She was a TV host when she was young, and later joined the film and television industry because of her love for acting. At the peak of her career, she chose to give up part of her job to focus on accompanying her son to grow up. She believes that children's growth needs the companionship and support of their parents, and although their own careers are important, their children's future is even more important. Therefore, she decided to be a role model for her children by giving encouragement and support at their most critical moments.
Xue Shujie's choice was a bit risky, but it paid off in the end. Her son thrived in her company, was admitted to a prestigious university and had a career of his own. And Xue Shujie also lived the life he wanted after retiring. She no longer pursues fame and status, but focuses on enjoying the beauty of life. She enjoys traveling and socializing, and actively participates in various social activities, showing the beauty and vitality of this age.
However, in real life, we often encounter some difficulties and challenges. For example, there is a lot of pressure at work, a lot of trivial things in life, complicated interpersonal relationships, and so on. These questions can make us feel tired and helpless, and even cause us to lose confidence and courage. However, if we can stay sober and confident like Xue Shujie, and not give up on ourselves in pursuit of a happy life, we can also live the life we want.
First of all, we should be clear about our goals and values. We should know what we want and how to achieve it. At the same time, we should also understand our own values and principles, and not give up our bottom line and principles.
Secondly, we should learn to adjust our mindset and lifestyle. We should maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, avoid falling into negative emotions and not being able to extricate ourselves, and at the same time pay attention to our physical and mental health, maintain adequate sleep and exercise, and have good relationships and mental state.
Finally, we should have the courage to face challenges and difficulties and learn from them. We should have the courage to accept challenges and overcome difficulties, but also learn from our failures, continue to grow and improve, and make ourselves stronger and more confident.
In short, like Xue Shujie, staying sober and confident, not giving up self-esteem, and pursuing a happy life is a positive attitude and mental state, which can allow us to better face the challenges and difficulties in life, and at the same time, it can also allow us to better enjoy the beauty and happiness in life, so that we can live every day more fully and realize the value of our life.
The above describes Xue Shujie's wise choice between career and family, and how she has achieved a balance in life through her own hard work and sober attitude. However, such a story has also triggered in-depth thinking and heated discussions among many netizens.
One netizen commented: "Xue Shujie's story really made me think deeply, as a professional woman, I often feel entangled between career and family. I was really inspired to see how Xue Shujie found a balance between the two. ”
Another netizen has a different opinion: "I think Xue Shujie's choice is very idealistic, not everyone has such conditions and opportunities. In real life, we often face more pressure and challenges, and it is difficult to be as free and easy as her. ”
Another netizen said: "I admire Xue Shujie's courage and determination, she gave up the peak of her career for the sake of her family, which requires a lot of determination." However, I also believe that women should have their own careers and pursuits, and cannot be completely dependent on their families. ”
These comments reflect the contradictions and struggles of many people in modern society when facing their careers and families. Xue Shujie's story undoubtedly provides a perspective for reflection, but we also need to recognize that everyone's situation is unique and we need to find a balance that works for us.