"Spring Festival Blind Date Battle: The Adventures of Young People"
When the Spring Festival arrives, are you still single?You'll have to hurry!This is the hottest season of the year, and on the way home, the matchmakers are already ready to give you a "Spring Festival limited edition" blind date meeting.
Imagine that everyone is looking forward to the warmth of going home, and you, in addition to that warmth, may have more than one "ta". Doesn't that sound exciting?But, oh, the blind date is not that simple.
The tide of urging marriage is like waves of the sea. Even if you don't want to do everything in your heart, you still have to obey your parents' "obedient". Otherwise, the unfilial hat will be buttoned up.
Especially in rural areas, blind dates are like going to a bazaar, and matchmakers only pay attention to the volume of transactions, and do not care about the quality of matchmaking at all. Sometimes the person who is introduced is really laughable.
For example, this young lady in Guizhou, 23 years old, turned out to be a matchmaker who gave her a blind date born in 89, and she is still a single father with a baby!At this moment, the young lady was stunned.
The parents don't care about this, they just know that the man is a civil servant, and the conditions are so good, which means that you should seize this opportunity quickly. That's what the older generation thinks, as long as the job is stable, everything else is a minor issue.
But the young lady doesn't see it that way, she argues directly with her parents, the age difference is so much, and she is still a divorced man with a baby, how can I be willing?
However, the parents didn't buy it at all, and said that such good conditions are rare, and what do you choose. The man is also an old fritter, knows how to please his father-in-law and mother-in-law, helps out at the young lady's house, and behaves meticulously.
Although the young lady hesitated, under the pressure of her parents, she was really in a dilemma. She shared her experience online and hoped to get some advice. Netizens have said that if you don't like it, don't force yourself.
This young lady may care too much about her parents' feelings, but what to do, you must know in your heart. Do you want to listen to the older generation, or do you want to listen to your own inner voice?Don't go to the end, you can't go ashore at both ends, and you still have a true feeling.
Therefore, the blind date is not a joke. What you want, you have to figure it out. Don't let your happy life turn into regretful memories just because of momentary hesitation.