"Get married and have a baby?This topic is terrible, it is simply the big boss of life, in the face of it, who can easily say "no"?But then again, we can't let it tire us out half to death, can we?
The turbulent changes of the times are just a hodgepodge of ideas, you see, although people are open-minded now, those patriarchal concepts are still as deeply rooted as a stubborn stone. Some families seem to have a throne, and they have to have a little prince.
Someone on the Internet said this, the son in the countryside, that's the core of the family, it's okay if you don't have it, it's a big deal if it's gone.
However, don't say it, this kind of concept that goes deep into the bone marrow is really not something that people in the city can understand. The feeling of obsessing with having a son, and the consequences of suffering, only those who have tried it know how heavy it is.
A 24-year-old young mother in Yunnan is a living example. A 24-year-old girl is in the mood for love, what about her?is like a 40-year-old, revolving around four babies all day long, the big one is just quiet, the small one is noisy, and he was almost driven crazy.
Her husband went out to earn money, and she was at home with the baby. You say, how tiring is a woman with four children?But she didn't complain, she just gritted her teeth to support it, and occasionally complained on the Internet, which was understandable.
Her four babies, the eldest is five years old, the second and third are twins and three years old, and the younger prince is just over a year old. Although there are many children and the family is lively, she also has mixed feelings in her heart, and she is too tired to take care of the baby, and she doesn't even know when such a day will be.
This young mother not only has to take care of the baby, but also has to do the farm work at home, what a superman!It's just that sometimes, she also feels sorry for her children and failed to give them a better life.
As soon as her story was on the Internet, netizens talked about it. Some comforted her, and some marveled at the poor conditions at home and still gave birth to so many children, how is education good?But as a parent, since the child is here, no matter how hard and tired he is, he can only bear it silently and try to give the best to the child.
The gender issue of children in rural areas is really a big problem. Some old people have traditions of thought, and it is difficult for a generation to change them. If you are not married, you will be promoted, if you are married, you will be born, and if you do not give birth to a boy, you will be born until a boy is born.
Their concept of parenting may be that children are fed and clothed, and educationWhat's that?Some even felt that at the age of 18, my task would be completed.
But today's young people have woken up to the fact that the cost of getting married and having a baby is too high and the burden is too heavy, so it's better to travel lightly and live a good life, isn't it good?
So, what do you think?In this crazy baby war, will you choose to go to war or stay put?Let's start a deep discussion about the "economics of having a baby"!