I. Introduction. In today's society, the problem of children's school boredom is becoming more and more serious, which has attracted the attention of parents and educators. School boredom not only affects a child's academic performance, but can also have a negative impact on a child's mental health and future development. Therefore, it is of great significance to analyze the reasons why children are tired of school and how to help children regain their interest and motivation for learning, so as to promote children's all-round development.
2. Analysis of the causes of the phenomenon of school boredom.
1.Parents have high expectations.
Parents have high expectations for their children's learning and pursue grades and rankings too much, resulting in huge pressure on their children. When children fail to meet their parents' expectations, they will have feelings such as low self-esteem and anxiety, and thus lose interest in learning.
2.Improper teaching methods.
Some schools have too rigid teaching methods to satisfy children's curiosity and desire to explore. Children spend most of their time in boring classes and are naturally bored with learning.
3.The family environment is not harmonious.
The disharmony of the family environment is also an important factor that causes children to be tired of school. Behaviors such as parents' discord and frequent quarrels or fights can cause varying degrees of psychological damage to children, thus affecting their attitude towards learning.
4.Social pressure.
In school, children may be pressured by their peers. For example, being ridiculed and ostracized by classmates can make children feel fear and disgust towards school.
3. How to help children regain their interest and motivation in learning.
1.Understand your child's interests and strengths.
Parents and teachers should pay attention to their children's interests and strengths, and encourage children to explore and learn in their own areas of interest. By stimulating children's interests, guide them to discover the joy of learning and a sense of achievement. At the same time, parents should also learn and grow with their children and become role models for their children.
2.Establish a good teacher-student relationship.
Teachers should build a good relationship with children and care about their lives and emotional needs. Through communication and communication with children, understand their confusion and problems, and give timely guidance and help. At the same time, teachers should also pay attention to children's emotional needs and give them adequate attention and support.
3.Encourage your child to try new things.
Parents can encourage their children to participate in some new activities and classes that expose them to different areas and knowledge. This broadens your child's horizons and stimulates their curiosity and desire to explore. At the same time, parents should also encourage their children to participate in extracurricular activities or clubs, so that children can learn and grow in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.
4.Establish a good family atmosphere.
Parents should create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere, so that children can feel the love and support of the family. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their children's emotional needs and give them adequate attention and support. This can help children build self-confidence, enhance self-confidence and a sense of security, and also help children better cope with setbacks and difficulties.
4. Reference examples.
1.Li Ming is a junior high school student, very interested in mathematics, his teacher discovered his potential and encouraged him to participate in the school's mathematics competition, in the competition Li Ming achieved excellent results, which not only enhanced his self-confidence and sense of achievement, but also stimulated his desire to explore mathematics more deeply, later Li Ming often participated in mathematics competitions, in the competition to continuously improve his mathematics scores, in the previous exams have been among the best, he felt very happy and said that he will continue to work hard to learn mathematics knowledge.
2.Wang Li is a primary school student, once lost interest in learning, her parents found out and actively communicated with her and looked for the reason, it turned out that Wang Li likes painting and handicraft, but the school curriculum can not meet her needs, so her parents signed her up for art classes and handicraft classes, so that she can be creative in the field she likes, Wang Li gradually regained her interest in learning and motivation to learn, and her grades have also improved significantly, and later Wang Li often participated in various painting and handicraft competitions, and won many awards, which also made her more confident and more passionate about learning。
3.Zhang Qiang is a high school student, he is very interested in physics, his teacher encouraged him to participate in the school's physics experiment group, let him explore the mysteries of physics in the experiment, by participating in various experiments, Zhang Qiang not only learned how to solve problems but also felt the charm of science, and had a strong interest in physics learning, and later Zhang Qiang participated in the national physics competition and won the gold medal, which made him very happy and said that he would continue to work hard to learn physics knowledge, and lay a solid foundation for future scientific research.