We often say, "Man is better than God." ”
No matter how smart a person is, if he can't "walk according to the sky", it will be difficult to accomplish anything.
The sky is the sky, the power of nature, the law of social operation, and human nature.
As an honest person, he always seems to be limited and has a hard time turning over.
The truth of life is not exactly the same as what we see and think. Many people don't mix well, in fact, they are "trapped in their own cocoon", and everything has to be found from themselves.
So, honest people are always bullied, and it would be nice to understand the following rules.
The rabbit bites when it's in a hurry": be a man, don't be too patient, and turn when it's time to turn.
During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a woman surnamed Hu who married an officer Liu Yan.
Hu is very beautiful and very popular with the queen mother in the palace.
The Queen Mother took the opportunity of the New Year to let Hu accompany her for more than a month.
When Liu Yan saw Hu returning, he did not ask for help, but suspected that Hu was having an affair with Emperor Liu Chan, so he started a pattern of beating and scolding, and wrote a divorce letter.
In an era of male superiority and inferiority, most women were resigned to fate, even if they lost their husbands, they had to remain chaste.
Unlike ordinary women, Hu wrote a ** asking her husband to be punished according to the law.
The paper was handed over to Zhuge Liang, and in order to correct the discipline, Liu Yan was cut down.
The ancients said, "A rabbit bites even when it is in a hurry." ”
The rabbit is a very docile animal and has no strength, but when it is impatient, it struggles to make an angry appearance, which makes people dare not provoke.
Honest person, you can usually be as docile as a rabbit, but when you are bullied, you also have to be like a rabbit and have the courage to bite.
What kind of person should smile at someone's ugly face all the time?Too humble love can only move yourself, but you can't move others, and others will take it for granted.
The thinker Rousseau said, "Nature shaped me and then broke the mold." ”
According to the natural character of "living in harmony", we have developed the appearance of honesty and trustworthiness, but we also have the ability to break through ourselves.
It's also part of nature to get into trouble with people, it's just that you're too restrained, which leads to the loss of nature. When you meet someone, you have to release your true nature, which is not **, but to show courage, defend your own interests, and correct the ugliness of others.
What is not normal must be a ghost": be a man, don't trust people casually, and have an extra heart in everything.
We should know the truth of trusting a person unconditionally.
The nature of truth is not what we think.
Why should you trust someone unconditionally?Because when we get along, we see his good character. If a bad person, we also believe unconditionally, isn't it stupid and ignorant?
An in-depth interpretation of the story of "Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf" will find that there are many doubts.
A wolf was injured and appeared in front of Mr. Dongguo. Isn't that suspicious?
Why does it hurt?Just because someone is chasing you?
From the nature of wolves, wolves are very ** and will attack people at any time, so people hate them to the core, and some hunters will also treat wolves as prey.
Unfortunately, instead of suspecting the wolf, Mr. Dong Guo chose to help the wolf avoid the hunters.
There is also a story about wolves.
In the savannah, a wolf cries out to a flock of sheep: "Drive away your sheepdogs, I swear I will never eat sheep again." ”
A sheep was moved and decided to drive the sheepdog away.
So the wolf was gone. He was afraid of the dog.
An honest man lives like a sheep, but by the wisdom of an old sheep he is not fooled.
When you encounter strange things, you still have to believe that no matter how honest a person is, if he is bullied, he becomes "self-inflicted" and does not deserve sympathy.
Trusting one's own people and being suspicious of outsiders is a legitimate social attitude. To doubt one's own kind is to create civil strife and give outsiders the opportunity to take advantage of it.
When interacting, you should take a little coolness - the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is as sweet as water.
Persimmon pick up soft pinch": In life, don't be a soft persimmon, have some personality.
Bullying the weak and fearing the strong is the wisdom of many.
It's easy for honest people to label themselves as "soft". If you don't want to be bullied, you have to take off the label.
The Matthew Effect tells us that if people get a little stronger, they get stronger;Be brave once or twice, and you will become more and more courageous.
In "The Return of the Congo Heroes", as soon as Yang Guo appeared, he was an unpopular person, Peach Blossom Island, Huang Rong, Ke Zhen** and others could not tolerate him, Guo Jing sent Yang Guo to Quanzhen to teach, **Zhao Zhijing was in trouble everywhere, and his juniors and disciples looked down on Yang Guo.
When Yang Guo was imprisoned, he played the role of a toad, and then was considered to have "gone the wrong way". Despite being labeled as "**", life is relatively much better.
The image of a person, always at some point, takes the initiative to "turn around", which is the so-called "change is meaningful".
Learn to refuse help;Actively keep your distance from errors;Pretend to be indifferent;Doing a bad thing will turn you into a bitter melon.
No matter how honest a person is, he must wear thick armor and not bully others in order to protect himself.