There is a boy in the class, who is the oldest in our class, but his self-care ability is very poor, and when he first entered junior high school, he couldn't even tie his own shoelaces, and he couldn't buy food in the cafeteria. I remember that on the first day of junior high school, he didn't know how to buy food, but another boy in our class brought him to buy food at the school gate.
Later, I found that he often did not eat in the morning, nor did he eat before evening Xi, and his face was sallow and sallow all day, which can be described as thin yellow muscles. When asked why he didn't eat, he said he had no money, and his parents didn't give him money for food. So I often buy food for him, and I also contact parents to let their children eat in time.
But his mother said that the reason why she didn't cook for the child in the morning was because the child was too picky and didn't like to eat the food she cooked for him, and his mother was so angry that she didn't want to cook for him anymore. And there are too many children in the family, there are 5 children, and his mother can't take care of them at all.
Some time ago, he told me that his parents didn't give him a meal card, nor did they give him money, and he couldn't eat, so he asked him to ask his parents for money to eat. I contacted his parents, but his mother didn't reply to me. As a result, the boy told me that his mom was either sleeping, her phone was on silent, or she was playing cards.
He also said that his mother was not at home at all, and that his mother took care of the younger siblings in another house, and that his mother had not cooked for him for a long time, and that she did not eat or cook for the children herself. This child often comes to school hungry, and I often buy him food, but this is not the norm. I couldn't contact the parents, so I quickly asked a colleague to change 20 yuan and asked him to buy food firstI don't know what parents think.
The boy told me that his mom used to hang out and go shopping, partying with friends, and that he often didn't see her when he got home. And his mother doesn't get up early in the morning to cook, and the boy is often late, because no one wakes him up, and his mother doesn't let him take his mobile phone, and the mobile phone must be left in the living room every night, so he can't hear it even if the alarm clock is set.
A few days ago, this boy sent me a message at 1 a.m., saying that his mother had drunk too much in the middle of the night, woke him up, cried and made trouble, and said that his mother said that she would count on him in the future and let him study Xi hard.
Alas!The child can't even eat, and he is hungry every day, how can he have the heart to learn Xi?His parents are reconstituted families, and he said he doesn't know how his mother was stimulated again. How can such a young child withstand so much pressure?The child didn't sleep all night, crying and sending me WeChat messages to tell me about his pain. I was also woken up, so I could only comfort him that he didn't have to think about it, and now that he was about to take the high school entrance examination, he just had to concentrate on studying Xi.
When encountering such parents, children are also helpless. So a while ago, this child felt that life was hopeless, and couldn't help but sigh: "My life has come to an end at a glance." "How does this look like the idea of a child in the third year of junior high school?The children of the same age in the class are still coquettish next to their parents, but when Chenghuan is on his knees, he has to think about it so much. The whole person has become spiritless, how will parents feel when they see their children like this?Anyway, I feel sorry for the child.
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