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Rural proverbs are concise forms of language that have been summed up by the vast number of peasants in their long-term production and life, some experiences, lessons, and moral principles. Although some of these sayings are passed down orally, they embody the wisdom and philosophy of life of the vast number of peasants. Among them, the saying "no cigarettes will be given for longevity, and no cigarettes will be added after mourning" is a kind of regulation and moral constraint on rural human relations.
"Shou does not give cigarettes" means that when you celebrate the birthday of the elderly, you cannot give cigarettes as a gift. This is because smoke is seen as a hoodoo in the countryside and is seen as something related to ghosts and spirits. Giving cigarettes to the elderly is considered disrespectful to the elderly, and at the same time, it is irresponsible for the health of the elderly. Therefore, when celebrating the birthday of the elderly, people generally choose to give some auspicious, healthy and practical gifts, such as sending some food, clothing, health care products, etc.
"Mourning is not added later" means that when participating in funeral activities, you cannot go to mourn after the funeral is over. This is because in traditional Chinese culture, death is a very serious matter, a moment of grief and grief for both the deceased and the family. If a person goes to mourn after the funeral is over, it will be considered an act of disrespect for the deceased and the family, and it is indifference and indifference to the deceased and the family. Therefore, when participating in funeral activities, people generally go to mourn immediately after the death of the deceased to express their concern and condolences to the deceased and their families.
The truth behind this proverb is the importance of human relationships and moral codes in rural society. In rural society, the interaction and relationship between people is very important. Mutual help and support among people is one of the basic characteristics of rural society. Therefore, it is very important to respect others, care for others, and give them appropriate help and support in interpersonal interactions. At the same time, in rural societies, moral codes are also very important. It is believed that moral code is a standard and norm that restricts and regulates people's behavior, and it is one of the important factors in maintaining social order and stability. Therefore, in rural society, it is very important to abide by moral principles, respect traditional Xi, and pay attention to human feelings.
In short, the truth contained in the saying "no cigarettes for longevity, no more for mourning" is the importance of interpersonal relationships and moral norms in rural society. It reminds people to respect others, care for others, and give them appropriate help and support in their interpersonal interactionsAt the same time, we must abide by moral principles, respect traditional Xi, and pay attention to human feelings. These principles are of positive significance for maintaining the harmony and stability of rural society and promoting the development of rural society.
In addition to this proverb, there are many other rural sayings that also contain profound life philosophies and moral implications. For example, "Favors are saws, if you don't come, I won't go", which means that if you don't take the initiative to visit friends or relatives, they won't come to visit you. This quote reminds people to take the initiative, passionate, and sincere in their interpersonal interactions in order to build good interpersonal relationships. Another example is "no one opens a store without a smile", which means that if you don't treat customers with warmth and friendliness, customers won't come to your store to shop. This sentence reminds businessmen to treat customers warmly and friendly in order to win the trust and support of customers.
In short, rural proverbs are the crystallization of the wisdom and philosophy of life of the vast number of farmers. They are not only a summary and generalization of rural social phenomena, but also a profound reflection and understanding of life and society. Through the learning and Xi understanding of these sayings, we can better understand the importance of interpersonal relationships and moral codes in rural society, better understand ourselves and others, and better face the challenges and difficulties in life.