Is it difficult for a rural son to find a partner?The two old farmers have experienced it first-hand and revealed their true feelings
The road to finding a partner is long.
In the countryside, there is a boy's family, and it is really not an easy matter to find the other half. The experiences of two old farmers, Grandpa Liu and Uncle Li, reflect the realities of the predicament faced by many rural families. During this time, they tried their best to get their children to marry, but to no avail.
1. Work hard, but can't find an ideal partner.
Uncle Liu's child Liu Qiang is also a person with a bit of knowledge, but in this metropolis, his education level is too low. In this competitive world, it was difficult for him to find a secure job, let alone one that paid well. But in the countryside, marriage has become the most important thing in people's lives. Uncle Liu and Aunt Li are very aware of this, and they know very well that if their son does not handle it well, it will have a great impact on their future lives, and it will also be a trouble for Liu Qiang.
Uncle Li's youngest son, Xiao Li, is very capable, stable in his work, and upright, but he has never found a suitable partner for him. He has been looking for a partner for so many years. Uncle Li heard that the neighbor's girl had a quarrel with someone, and after returning home, a glimmer of hope rose in his heart, but the various conditions proposed by the other party, such as the car, house, bride price, etc., made him very depressed.
2. The fetters of old traditional ideas.
This situation shows that in the rural areas of our country, there is a kind of traditional thinking that is widespread among people, and this kind of thinking has also been influenced to a certain extent. In the countryside, boys are seen as the sustenance of the elderly and the elderly, therefore, many people want to have more boys. However, due to the introduction of the one-child policy, there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women in our country. The fact that there are more men than women has created a new dilemma for many people, and that is that finding a partner has become more difficult.
In addition, the high bride price also caused certain obstacles to the marital life of the peasants. Many female families will have certain economic needs for men, such as cars, houses, etc., which are difficult for many poor families to achieve. As a result, many men have become bachelors in the family.
The shortcomings of rural life.
This is a very cruel fact, and it is also a desperate fact, Uncle Li, Uncle Liu, and many farmers feel deeply powerless. Not only did they do everything possible to ask for help from relatives and friends, but they also tried every possible way to introduce their partners to relatives and friends, and they also tried fortune-telling and reading eight characters. However, all efforts were in vain.
This kind of regret also made Uncle Li feel very disappointed and depressed. Although he is worried about his children's marriage, he does not complain about fate, he faces it calmly. For his son, he also knows that he can't help it, and now he can only take one step at a time.
The grim state of marriage in the countryside.
The above situation shows that in the countryside, it is really not easy for families with boys to find their other half. At present, there are serious problems such as excessively high bride prices and an imbalance in the ratio of men and women among college graduates in China. Excellent talents can find jobs in the village, and those with poor family backgrounds have to go outside to work hard and strive for more opportunities.
In the countryside, the difficulty of marriage is an institutional problem. In addition, problems such as the low ratio of men to women and the high bride price are also affected by traditional thinking. It is necessary to start from several aspects, such as the guidance of the people, the reform of education, and the change of people's entire ideology, in order to effectively solve the above problems.
Marriage is a very important thing for a person and a family. We hope that in the near future, the countryside will get out of this predicament and let every family live a happy and stable life.