The Adult Law of Dealing with the World
A classmate asked me, "How do you deal with the world like an adult?"He often encounters "giant babies" and "bar spirits", and finds them difficult to understand, difficult to cooperate, and sometimes even quarrelsome. In fact, this kind of person just hasn't grown up and is not mature enough.
I told him that when I met such people, it was often because we didn't communicate on the same "channel". There are three rules in this world: the laws of nature, the laws of ethnicity, and the laws of universality. Adults know how to apply these rules to work with each other while protecting themselves.
The law of nature: the strong survive
What are the laws of nature?To put it simply, it is "natural selection, survival of the fittest". The law of the jungle is the strongest, and strength is everything. For example, what would you do if someone broke into your house and tried to steal the food?Pick up the wooden stick and get him out!Reasonable?Signing a peace agreement?It didn't work!In this case, only the stronger and more ruthless side will survive. This is the law of nature.
In a world of natural laws, individual strengths are crucial. There are two main advantages of these advantages: one is violence, and the other is intelligence. Either just knock him away, or set a trap so that he can't get close. The laws of nature do protect our interests. If you come across an unreasonable barbarian, it is advisable to deal with it with the laws of nature.
The Law of Ethnicity: Unity is strength
But there is a problem with the laws of nature: people tend to develop extreme distrust between people, and cooperation becomes difficult. At this time, the law of ethnicity came into being. What is the Law of Ethnicity?It is an organization formed by people of the same blood and the same goal. In order to achieve greater goals, everyone must give up some of their choice and decision-making power to the collective. For example, brother swearing, performance in the enterprise.
1. Observance of laws and regulations in the country is the embodiment of ethnic laws.
In order to achieve a greater goal, everyone sacrificed some of their personal interests and used the strength of the group to protect each individual. These rules and laws are the laws of the race. In the enterprise, I suggest that you follow the rules of the race, follow the rules, and use the rules.
Universal Law: Bridging Differences
However, the law of ethnicity also has its limitations: there is harmony within the community, but there is often conflict between different communities. Thus, the universal law was born. What is a universal law?It is something that all organizations and individuals can understand and agree with. Universal values, such as respect for life and respect for contracts, transcend ethnic conflicts and allow people to build trust more broadly.
When communicating and collaborating between different organizations, I recommend using universal rules. Find common ground with each other instead of challenging other people's positions and beliefs. Because there are some things that transcend ethnic groups and differences, such as respect for life, adherence to contracts, etc. These universal values allow us to transcend our differences and build broader trust and cooperation.
To summarize the three ** rules mentioned above: the laws of nature, the laws of ethnicity, and the laws of universality. From the barbaric laws of nature to the orderly laws of the race, and then to the universal laws of love, this is the proof that our world is becoming more and more progressive and civilized.
If you look at the world from the perspective of these three rules, you will find that whether it is personal development, inter-organizational games, or international political disputes, there is a "law" flavor behind it.
But we have to go back to ourselves and think about it
The law of nature is quite "strong" because it is primitive and barbaric, as long as you agree with it.
The universal law is the most "powerful" because it is the broadest and allows for more collaboration between people.
As for those "giant babies" and "bar spirits", they just don't know how to choose the right laws to deal with the world.
We have to ask ourselves: what kind of law are you using today to exchange value with the world?
The more advanced the rules you use, the more things you can exchange. But at the same time, you also become more vulnerable. Therefore, we must know how to use the laws of the race and the universal laws to exchange values with the world, and at the same time, when necessary, we must also use the laws of nature to protect ourselves.
After all, in this complex world, if you want to live a nourishing and comfortable life, you must learn to choose the right rules and deal with the world well.
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