When you are happy, you don't fight, and when you are angry, you don't fight", which is the wisdom of dealing with the world, and it is also a good way to cultivate one's self-cultivation.
In fact, there are 2 sentences behind "silent when mourning, and there is an end when you are tired", but not many people know it.
These 4 sentences seem simple, but in fact, they contain a profound philosophy of life.
First, the time is not promised.
People tend to be overly optimistic when they are happy, and it is easy to ignore potential risks and difficulties, thus making unrealistic promises.
Not only may such promises fail to be kept, but they may also cause unnecessary trouble and disappointment to oneself and others.
Therefore, when we are happy, we should remain calm and rational, seriously consider our abilities and actual situation, and not make promises lightly.
Second, when you are angry, you don't fight.
People tend to get emotional when they are angry, and they tend to lose their minds easily, thus acting impulsively.
Such behavior may not only hurt others, but may also put oneself in an even more embarrassing situation.
Therefore, when we are angry, we should learn to control our emotions, stay calm and rational, and not argue easily.
3. Silence when mourning.
In times of grief, people tend to be reticent and very depressed, feeling that everything is meaningless.
However, silence when grieving is often unreal, as it is difficult to think rationally when you are feeling down.
Silence only makes things worse and doesn't solve the problem.
Therefore, in times of grief, we need to learn to express our emotions and find solutions to problems, rather than blindly being silent.
For example, writing a diary, drawing, listening, exercising, and so on.
Not only do these methods not hurt the feelings of others, but they also allow us to understand our own emotions more deeply.
Fourth, there is an end to tiredness.
When we feel tired and sleepy, we often feel powerless and helpless, and it is easy to want to give up or run away.
However, if we want to accomplish something or achieve a goal, we need to work hard.
Even if we feel tired, we need to persevere. Only in this way can we succeed.