The little couple has an unsightly chat history, how do you feel after reading it?
In this colorful world, each young couple has their own unique story. What I want to share today is a story about me and my significant other, Xiaoli, our "unsightly" chats, but the positive energy and growth behind these records.
Let me first introduce Xiaoli, she is a girl who loves life and has a cheerful personality. The two of us met in college, and our shared interests and hobbies quickly made us friends, and then naturally developed into a couple. Since then, we've been in close communication, and that includes our chats.
The embarrassment of meeting for the first time, the sweet words in the middle of the night, and the cold war after the quarrel, these seemingly ordinary conversations have become very vivid in our chat records. If you look closely, you will find that there is actually a hidden trajectory of our growth.
When we first met, our conversations always seemed so cautious. I remember the first message I sent her at the time: "Hello, Lily, I'm Jack. And she replied simply: "Hello, Jack." "At that time, we were cautiously exploring each other's worlds, trying to understand each other.
As time went on, our chat logs started to fill up with late-night sweet words. We would talk late into the night, and we would talk about everything from daily chores to future plans. At this stage, our chat history looks like a hilarious script, and every message is full of love and warmth.
However, in our chat logs, the cold war after the quarrel also occupies a part. We are all people with our own opinions, and when we don't agree on opinions, we will quarrel. During that time, our chat history became an "unsightly" existence. However, we always believe that these difficulties are only part of our growth and need to be faced and solved.
I remember one time we got into an argument over a trivial matter. The last message from Xiaoli was: "Let's calm down. Then there were a few days of silence. In those days, I looked through our previous chats and reflected on my mistakes. In the end, I chose to apologize and proposed a plan for improvement.
Xiaoli, I was wrong. I didn't put myself in your shoes before. In the future, I will respect your opinion even more. I sent her this message.
It didn't take long for her to reply: "I'm also at fault, I should have better expressed my opinion and not been directly angry." We all need to grow, right?”
Although our chat history may seem "unsightly", it is full of traces of our growth. Every dispute and cold war has made us understand each other better and think more deeply. We gradually learned how to communicate better, how to respect each other, how to understand each other's ideas.
Looking back, our chat history is like a diary, recording our joys, sorrows, and sorrows, as well as our growth. While some of these parts may seem "unsightly", we know that these are the ways we grow up and the most precious parts of our love story.
This is our story, a seemingly "unsightly" chat log, but full of positive energy. I hope that every young couple can use chat records to write their own love stories and use it to record their own growth, just like us.