Zhang Xiaoxian said:"The first love is a season of flowers, and the aftertaste lasts long. "
In fact, not all first loves are so beautiful. Some people's first love is actually a wrong encounter.
Chen Na is 45 years old this year, and she never dreamed that she would meet her first love Wei Dong again, and there would be a time to eat at the same table.
They have been separated for 23 years, and in order to avoid him, she chose to marry away from home and have a daughter.
And he stayed in their small county town and continued to dream of making a fortune.
For so many years, Chen Na has always firmly believed that breaking up with Wei Dong was the wisest choice in her life.
It was precisely because of that mistake that she opened her eyes wide later and found a man she thought was worth marrying, this time she had a good eye, and her husband really pitied her after marriage.
Her husband's name is Ye Jianjun, three years older than her, 48 years old this year, the workshop director of a state-owned enterprise, and the monthly income has exceeded 10,000 yuan for several years.
Most of the money earned by her husband will be handed over to her, and a small part will be kept in his own hands, and occasionally socialize, buy some gifts, and give his parents some living expenses.
Over the years, her husband has never asked Chen Qian where he is, she has saved or spent, as if everything has nothing to do with him.
Chen Na once asked him with a curious smile: "Jianjun, aren't you afraid that I will take the money and run away?"Aren't you afraid that I will take all the money to help my brother?”
When she asked him, it was sunny outside, and the sun was projecting obliquely from the window, Ye Jianjun was bathing in the sun, reading a magazine with his head down, drinking strong black tea, and feeling the warmth of the winter sun.
When Ye Jianjun heard Chen Na ask him, he smiled and raised his head to look at her, his eyes full of doting and trust.
He smiled faintly, his tone was gentle but firm, and he said, "Wife, I believe in you, you can't be such a person." ”
It is said that a woman has two chances to be reincarnated in her life, and the first time she is reincarnated as a human being, she cannot choose;But the second time you find a partner to marry, you can choose.
Chen Na was glad that she got married because she opened her eyes wide and chose to marry her husband Jianjun instead of her first love Wei Dong.
When Chen Na was 21 years old, she met Wei Dong.
Chen Na's family lives in the countryside, she met Wei Dong's sister Wei Mei when she went out to work, and when she returned home before the Chinese New Year, Wei Mei invited Chen Na to come to her house to play in her free time.
This is how Chen Na entered Weidong's emotional world.
That year, Wei Dong was 23 years old, and when he reached the age of finding a partner, his parents worked in the county seat, and Wei Dong himself was tall and handsome, so he didn't have to worry about finding a wife.
Fate is a strange thing, the matchmaker made seven or eight introductions to him intermittently, but he didn't like any of them.
This one is too short!That's too fat!The other is uneducated!
When Chen Na came to play with her sister Wei Mei as promised, it was Wei Dong who opened the door.
The girl standing outside the door looked at him with clear eyes and asked timidly, "Is Wei Mei at home?"”
At that moment, Wei Dong's heart was full of deer, this girl was the other half he was looking for!
After Chen Na entered the house, she and Wei Mei were locked in the room and chattered, Wei Dong poured tea for a while and took melon seeds for a while, which made Wei Mei scream and said, "Brother, can you not run around in my room?"”
When Chen Na went home, Wei Mei sent her downstairs, and when Wei Dong saw this, he pushed a bicycle over and said, "I'll help Wei Mei send you home." ”
Chen Na was shy and disagreed, Wei Dong insisted on sending it, Wei Mei had already seen her brother's intentions at this time, and said to Chen Na with a smile: "Let him send it, he is idle anyway." ”
With this send, the two sparked.
Wei Dong is 23 years old and Chen Na is 21 years old, which is the age when love is beginning to open and love is hazy.
The two have been in love for nearly a year and are engaged, and when the sweetness of love slowly cools, Chen Na is also slowly sobering up.
Weidong is handsome, and his family conditions are also good, so it is a good choice to do a small business in the county by himself.
But he has machismo, he has to listen to what he says, or he will show his face;And the money he spent for her was clearly remembered in a small notebook, and he would read it to Chen Na from time to time.
Chen Na didn't dare to imagine her life after marrying Wei Dong, although Wei Dong was her first love, she was definitely not an ideal marriage partner.
After the Chinese New Year the next year, with the consent of her parents, she chose to go to Guangdong to work, and her parents helped her withdraw from the marriage at home.
When he learned that Chen Na was going to divorce him, Wei Dong was furious, he chased Chen Na's parents to ask Chen Na's *** but they sternly refused.
Her parents told her not to come back for a short time, saying that Weidong would come to the village from time to time.
When Chen Na was working outside, she met Jianjun, who worked in a state-owned enterprise, and compared with Weidong, Jianjun looked really ordinary.
Looks ordinary, has an average height, and doesn't talk sweetly or stalk.
But in the winter, he will give you a scarf, a hand warmer, and in the summer, he will buy you a small fan and get a few mung bean popsicles.
He would never ask Chen Na to do anything for him, he has always been silently paying, and even the sisters in Chen Na's dormitory said: "You have to catch it, whoever finds a husband like Jianjun will enjoy it." ”
At this time, his first love Wei Dong heard that he had hurriedly found a high school classmate to marry.
Chen Na was relieved, she took Jianjun home, met her parents, and not long after she returned, they got married in Guangdong.
Chen Na worked as a clerk in a private company, Jianjun worked in a state-owned enterprise, and the housing prices in Guangdong were not high at that time, and half a year after they got married, they took out a down payment loan to buy a house and lived a happy life.
The housework at home, the little couple is rushing to do it.
Stir-fry and cook, build the army and wrap it.
Washing dishes and chopsticks for hygiene, Chen Na wrapped it.
The couple never quarreled about housework, and after their daughter fell to the ground, it brought them more laughter and happiness.
Chen Na has never told Jianjun the story of her first love Wei Dong, because she feels that some people and some things are only suitable for being buried in the depths of memory and not suitable for sharing.
She and Wei Dong were just an inappropriate encounter when they were young!
Chen Na thought that she would never see Weidong again in her life, but what she didn't expect was that after 23 years, she saw him again at the funeral of her mother's death.
My mother died of a heart attack at the age of 74.
The old people in the village envied their mother, saying that she had accumulated virtue in her previous life, and she would die in her sleep in this life.
did not torture the children, nor did they let themselves be tortured and wronged, so everyone felt that everything was the best arrangement.
Chen Na and her husband Jianjun are back with their baby daughter Yixin.
Chen Na never dreamed that Wei Dong would appear at her mother's funeral.
The younger brother quietly told Chen Na that Wei Dong and his wife had been divorced for four or five years, and he had all the money in his own hands, and his wife didn't need his money, and Wei Dong also treated his wife as a free nanny at home.
Her brother's words made Chen Na feel happy, she thanked herself for finding it inappropriate back then, and decisively took the decision to break up, give up, and leave, otherwise this divorced woman today would be herself.
Chen Na, Jianjun and Yixin knelt down in front of their mother's mourning hall, Wei Dong brought his son to incense, the years are really urging people to get old, his son looks like he was tall and handsome when he was young, and he himself has really begun to get old.
48 years old is actually not old, but he was once tall and handsome, but now he has a big belly, and even his temples have begun to turn gray.
After Wei Dong took his son to the incense, he walked up to Chen Na and said, "Nana, long time no see, won't you introduce me to your family?"”
There was no way, Chen Na had to introduce his husband and daughter to him, and he also introduced his son to Chen Na, saying that his son graduated from the military academy and became an officer in the army.
At lunchtime, Wei Dong brought his son over to sit at a table with Chen Na's family, many people in the village knew that they had been in love back then, and they really hated the way they looked at their table intentionally or unintentionally.
Everyone wants to see the hilarity and jokes between Chen Na and Wei Dong, but it's a pity that life is so dull, between Chen Na and Wei Dong, of course, nothing will happen.
Wei Dong's son, sitting next to Chen Na's daughter, sticking to Yixin and asking this and that, is very much like Wei Dong who was scurrying around in Wei Mei's room back then.
But Yixin was obviously not interested in the handsome guy next to her, she didn't even lift her eyelids, and she didn't pay much attention to him.
Such an atmosphere was very depressing, and Jianjun seemed to feel the strangeness, and he raised his head several times and looked at Wei Dong with a ** face.
Wei Dong smiled and said to Chen Na: "Time flies so fast, I haven't seen each other for 23 years, our children are so old, and it's time to talk about marriage, why don't we fight our in-laws, my son is worthy of your daughter, what do you think?"”
Hit the in-laws?Chen Na's head grew when she heard this, and just as she was thinking about how to reject him, Jianjun, who was sitting next to Chen Na, spoke, and said, "I'm sorry, my daughter already has a boyfriend." ”
Yixin nodded again and again when she heard this, and the faces of Wei Dong and his son became ugly.
After eating, when Wei Dong was about to leave, he told Chen Na to add a WeChat, and then we would be in touch often, Chen Na shook her head, and Hao refused him without hesitation.
Watching the backs of their father and son drift away, Jianjun frowned and thought bitterly.
He asked Chen Na curiously: "Wife, is this person familiar with you?"”
Chen Na shrugged her shoulders and replied with a smile: "An old man, that's all." ”
Zhang Jiajia said: "The beginning of the story is always like this, and it is just the right time to catch you off guard. The end of the story is always like this, two flowers bloom, and the sky is separated. ”
Some people scatter as they walk, and some things fade away when they look at them. Those who are separated, or love, let him disappear in the river of time, and we just need to live the present and be kind to the people around us.