When I was a child, I really took my father's slap, and afterwards I heard my mother say, five fingers and five marks, the most impressive one, when I was a child, I played with my brother's buttocks, and in that era, I used matches to light a fire to cook.
Born in the countryside, every family is so poor that they can't eat, they can't wear warm, and they can't even afford matches, our family is in the village and the conditions are OK, my father is an accountant in the town supply and marketing cooperative, and the family bought a lot of loose matches, Ma Lan's match heads, very beautiful, and it is estimated that my father is also cheap.
I bought a lot of such matches, so that my brother had a chance to take advantage of it, and he was spanked for the first time, and now I feel quite embarrassed in retrospect.
A girl was beaten by her father, feeling hurt her self-esteem, in my memory, this incident is still fresh in my memory, and it is still unforgettable, the scene of that year is vivid, as if it was posted yesterday.
Dad bought matches, this matter was discovered by my brother, he didn't squeak at the time, and when his parents were not at home, he secretly took the matches that his father bought and went out to play, and I still have a lot of children following him and watching him play alone.
There were a lot of children playing together in a village, and a few little boys were curious and wanted to play, so they just wouldn't let them play.
He himself thought like a baby, sliding around and playing with matches, and these children couldn't catch them, so they turned around and ran away, and I thought it was cold before they ran home.
But I was wrong, and after a while, my father came, and it was the children who led my father to us.
Instead of beating us both in front of the children, my father walked up and dragged me home with my brother. threw himself into the house, hugged his brother to the kang, his butt was exposed, and he fought.
At that time, my brother was crying, and my father said, if you don't play with fire in the future, you don't care about you today, you don't know what you can do in the future.
Do you know about playing with fire?What if you play with fire and burn down the house, where will you live in the future?
In the big picture, playing with fire** will burn yourself si!
My brother weakly retorted, why play at home, Dad is even more angry, playing outside, ** the same, what if it burns to someone else's house or the mountain catches fire, I also got in, you are bold enough, and you take your sister to play together, if it weren't for the children in the village to come to the house to complain, we are still in the dark, my brother has nothing to say, Dad is fighting, and he asks if he will play with fire in the future?
Don't look at him small, he is very smart, and he said that he would never dare to play again in the future, and his father asked, why didn't he dare to play, he said that playing with fire **, playing with fire and causing trouble .........
Dad stopped, dragged him off the kang, and told him to stand up, put his pants up by himself, and if he made a mistake in the future, he would be beaten, you know?
The elder brother wiped his tears with his sleeve, nodded his head, and said vaguely, Okay.
I stood aside and watched for a long time, when my father dragged me to me and slapped me twice in the ass, do you know why he hit you?
Tell your brother to play with fire, you are also at fault, the fault is in ** know, I was stunned for a long time, I couldn't answer, Dad said, I will answer for you, do you know that playing with fire is wrong, playing with fire is a crime, brother is playing with fire, you have to go home and tell your parents, do you know?
I put my hands on my buttocks and told my dad that I got it.
Dad let my brother and me go, let me wash my face, don't cry, and began to talk about the big truth, children are not sensible and make mistakes, they must correct their mistakes.
Children are like saplings, they must be corrected in time if they grow crooked, and they cannot become talents if they do not grow up.
This is when I was ignorant, I got into trouble with my brother, I was beaten by my father, and after that beating, I was never beaten again.
Now think about the right discipline of the father, the child should be managed if there is a mistake, no matter how wrong it will be, it will be too late to regret it at that time.