The philosopher Feng Youlan said: "People will naturally take the right path, you don't have to worry about looking." "It's usually right to go with what you feel. ”
Things must be followed, and things must not be read. If there is nothing in the heart, if there is a good time in the world. A person is unhappy mainly because he worries too much. If you have too many troubles to get rid of, your life will sink into misery.
In Mo Yan's "Tired of Life and Death", there is a landlord named Simon Brain, who is very good to people everywhere, but he was framed and unjustly killed.
Simon is not reconciled, but the King of Hell complains to him, and the King of Hell becomes impatient and sends him to the path of the animal.
He has become a pig, a dog, a monkey and other animals, no matter which life cycle, he has a grudge in his heart, but every time he is entangled, he is hurt more and more.
Later, Simon Naohao regretted that resentment is a poison, and the deeper it is entangled, the greater the damage.
Letting go of the past is actually freeing yourself.
Let it pass!Instead of dwelling on the past, let go and start a new life with all your heart.
A friend of mine was always sad and anxious.
During one interview, he kept saying to me: there are so many people interviewed, there must be some influential characters, what should I do?If I am unemployed, I can't make money, I can't buy a house, I can't find a wife, then I'll be miserable in my old age, I'll be sick in bed and no one will take care of me. What's more, my parents would be very sad, and now I can think of my parents sighing because I failed the interview.
No matter what happened, he would mumble to himself, in pain, as if this one thing had failed and his whole fate would be over.
Psychologists say that 90% of what we fear will not happen.
There is no point in worrying about things in the future. What you know, what you know, what you know, that's all.
Carnegie told a story about his friend Elizabeth.
When Elizabeth's favorite nephew dies in the war, she is heartbroken and loses the courage to move on. She quit her job and decided to find a secluded place to die.
While packing, she found a letter from her nephew in the closet:
No matter how far away I am, no matter how far apart we are, I will always remember you taught me to be a man and accept whatever happens. ”
Yes, whatever happens, accept it. Elizabeth suddenly came to her senses and recovered from the grief of losing her nephew.
For things that cannot be changed, all emotions will only consume themselves. The most important thing is to obey God's will, accept the arrangement of fate, and live your own moment.