There are 8 cousins in the husband's family, and the other seven are all married and working hard everywhere. Only this old seven, who is 35 years old, is still in a state of "one person eats enough for the whole family and is not hungry".
Because I was worried that this cousin would be a bachelor, all of our brothers and concubines used the resources around them to introduce him to someone. However, the blind date was met a lot, but none of them succeeded. Either he is poor, or he is ugly or short.
As the days went by, we didn't have the confidence to introduce it again.
can't stand my cousin's mother, that is, my aunt, three days and two ends.
There is no way, for the sake of the "incense" of our aunt's family, and for the sake of my cousin not to be single, we just stubbornly ask everywhere if there is a suitable girl.
In fact, my cousin's hardware conditions are more than enough, and there is a mortgaged house in our provincial capital, which is not big, more than 70 square meters.
There is a full-length car, the car is not expensive, more than 100,000 yuan.
has a fairly stable job with a monthly salary of about 10,000 yuan.
However, the only flaw is that this cousin is not tall, ** black and swarthy, about one meter six or eight, and it is really hard to describe how long it is.
We're all talking in private.,Why the other 7 tall and big.,Not to mention very handsome.,But it's definitely not an ugly series.。 Why is he so different?
In order to get my cousin off the list as soon as possible, we are really heartbroken. Unexpectedly, by chance, I really met a girl through a friend.
This girl, who is also 30 years old, is also from a town near our hometown, and has been selling gold jewelry in a shopping mall in the provincial capital.
When the cousin met this girl, the conversation was not bad. The cousin was also honest and told him about his situation like pouring beans on a bamboo tube.
My cousin's idea is that my conditions are like this, if you get along, let's talk about it, and if you don't get along, forget it, so as not to waste each other's time.
The girl didn't say yes or disagree at the time, but the two of them added WeChat, and the girl said that they could make an appointment to eat together next time they were free.
Although his cousin is not good-looking, he has experience there after all, and he is not stupid, he thinks there is a drama, so he starts the mode of bombardment and indiscriminate bombing.
For example, I drove a car and waited at the door of the shopping mall where the girl went to work, so that I could take her home after work.
For example, buy some snacks that a girl likes to eat and bring them to her.
For example, when there are various festivals, I will give a small gold or something.
Not to mention, after coming and going, the girl soon lived with her cousin in his little house.
We were all happy for him, and we were happy for my aunt back home, I thought it was a boiled duck that couldn't fly.
However, plans have not kept up with the changes. I don't know if they live together, each other's shortcomings are exposed, or what's going on.
In short, I heard my cousin say that the girl always quarrels with her cousin inexplicably, either disliking her cousin or disliking her cousin, and every time my cousin wants the girl to dissipate her anger, he uses red envelopes to open the way.
Once, for half a month, I sent a 520 red envelope to the girl every morning. Good guy, the salary of 10,000 yuan a month is almost gone.
The cousin relied on this method to coax the girl well. Finally, the two adults are going to meet, and the bride price is 1660,000, plus 5 gold.
On this day, it was time to meet, and the cousin took his parents to the girl's house happily.
However, she never expected that the girl would dislike her cousin's parents for bringing too few things.
The cousin looked at the things he brought: two boxes of Dream Blue, two soft mediums, two bottles of honey, two boxes of milk, two boxes of sugar, and a box of apples. It is said that this is not a low grade in rural areas.
But the girl said: My father has four brothers, at least 4 soft ones, one for each person.
The cousin said: Today is to come to your house to give a bride price to meet, and it is not a recognition of relatives, and it is not too late to send it when you recognize relatives next time.
But the girl just dragged her cousin and didn't let go, one would say that there were fewer things, and the other would say that the bride price was also less, which was too faceless. After a while, he said that the 5 gold he bought was not good-looking......
The more the two quarreled, the more excited they became, and the cousin's parents later learned the reason for the quarrel, scolded the cousin, and hurriedly apologized to the girl, saying that they had not considered it well and were willing to buy it immediately. Saying that today is a good day for them, let her not be angry.
But the girl didn't give any face, saying that she was angry, and she didn't talk about any good days.
Maybe it was the humble apology of his parents that stimulated the cousin, or maybe he understood this relationship, the girl was not very optimistic about him, in short, this time the cousin was not used to her, and the second was to follow her words: Okay, then don't talk about it.
In this way, the cousin came back with his parents and brought back the bride price he had brought, but the cousin still stayed there and did not take it back.
Later, my cousin looked for the girl a few more times, but the girl ignored her, saying that you didn't talk about it, why are you looking for her.
After many times, the cousin was unwilling to ask the girl for peace, and the two of them ended up like this.
But my cousin's parents quit, because the 5 gold they bought before the meeting has not been returned.
My aunt said that I bought it for more than 60,000 yuan in cash, and it would be a loss not to come back.
So they called their cousin and asked him if he had any chance of reconciling. If you have, you don't want it, and if you don't, you have to come back.
60,000 yuan, they can't earn it after a year's hard work.
The cousin said that the reconciliation was not good, and the girl had reconciled with her ex-boyfriend. As for the 5 gold, he will not ask for it, but if you want it, you will go yourself.
Auntie at home total, must.
But the two of them were a little scared, so they called my parents-in-law and another uncle's house, and a group of 6 people went to the girl's house.
The girl's family is also a wonder, but they don't want to retreat. Especially the girl and her mother, they said that after they broke up, they threw away the 5 gold.
Auntie asked: Where did you throw it?
The girl's mother said, "My girl was angry with you that day, and when you left, she threw the 5 gold into the river at the door, so you can find it yourself."
Auntie was angry. It means that your girl has found someone else, and you are not ashamed to keep the things of the man in front of you?
But the other family was unmoved.
The anxious aunt enlarged her move and said: You can do it if you don't retreat. I also know which family you're talking about. When the day you get married, don't blame me for not being emotional.
The girl was frightened and looked at her mother. Then he said: 5 gold, either you let your son find me, or I will pay you 20,000 yuan, or you go to the river to fish yourself.
In my aunt's heart, if I can make 20,000, it is 20,000.
In this way, the aunt went home with 20,000 yuan.
I thought that was the end of the matter. I didn't expect my aunt to think otherwise. She felt that she had suffered a loss, she had lost 40,000 yuan in vain, and she hadn't heard anyone call her mom.
So her sassy behavior came, as soon as she saw me, she said: You really can't have a good eye, why did you introduce Qingzi (cousin's nickname) to such a girl, and she is not a yellow flower girl, and she deceived Qingzi for tens of thousands of yuan. It's better not to know than to know early, and you can save some money.
I was mad when I heard it!Auntie, is this talking in human terms?
Later, as long as I went back to my hometown one by one, she would come to me and say a few words, which was nothing more than that the girl I introduced was unreliable and caused her son to lose money.
Now when I see her, I can't hide and don't want to see her, for fear that she will say thunderous things that make my blood pressure soar again.
Now the relatives in my hometown know that I introduced a daughter-in-law to my aunt, and my mother didn't hear a word, so I lost more than 40,000 yuan.
Through this incident, I can be considered to have realized that for people who don't know how to be grateful, no matter how sincere you are, he will dislike it and say that it is a wolf's heart.
No wonder some people say: It's good not to be a matchmaker, not to be a guarantor, I regret introducing my cousin!
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