Marriage, like a grand banquet, is lively and prosperous. However, when the prosperity is gone, the truth of the marriage is exposed. Perhaps, we have put all our youth and courage into it for the sake of love, but the reality often hits us hard. When the marriage comes to an end, we find that those hearts that were once the most sincere have been tortured beyond recognition by time and reality.
Divorce means ending a past that is unbearable and starting anew. However, where does the courage to start over come from?When we lose the ability to trust others, when we no longer have the courage to bet on marriage, those once passion and courage have long been worn out by time. The light in our eyes is gone, but the deep wounds in our hearts cannot be healed.
The person we once trusted and loved the most inadvertently drove us into a dead end. We struggled, trying to find a glimmer of life, only to find that there were walls all around us. What was once a good memory has now become the most unbearable and ugly experience. We search for our faith in the ruins of marriage, only to find that our faith has long since been shattered into countless pieces.
Perhaps, this is the helplessness of life. We used to fight for love, but in the end, we were covered in scars. Those youths that have been stolen by the years, those beliefs that have been destroyed by reality, can never be found back after all. We can only walk forward in solitude, carrying the shadow of the past and looking for hope for the future.
However, life is not all darkness. There will always be some people, some things, that will make us regain our courage and enthusiasm. Perhaps, we can learn to grow in countless setbacks and find strength in countless pains. When we are no longer afraid of loss and no longer afraid of the future, we can truly get out of the dead end and welcome the light that belongs to us.
Marriage is just an experience of life. What we learn from this is not only the beauty of love, but also the wisdom of life. Those days that made us cry will eventually become the most precious treasure of our hearts. Let us move forward bravely in the long river of years, find the original self, and find the heart that once shone brightly.