Author: Xinqing.
01, opening.
Life is like a song, and it is so graceful that people can't help but look back. From youth to old age, the years have flown by, as if it was just a blink of an eye. During this long journey, everyone is making stories and connections with all kinds of people around them. However, some stories are sad and deep, and sincere efforts are not treated; Some stories are warm and beautiful, people who find empathy in the long river of years, and laugh together to watch the ebb and flow of the tide. In old age, when someone is with you, more warmth and care will be given. However, there are always those who are Xi to pleasing others, who are generous and decent on the surface, but suffer from inner sorrow. Cai Kangyong once said: "I encourage everyone to be a cold person, being overly enthusiastic is not a way for a person to maintain a good relationship." "People who really live well tend to be a little selfish as they get older.
02. Selfish financial management in old age.
In the journey of life, for a long time, I lived for others. Constantly pay for children, parents, and lovers. It wasn't until I grew old that I realized that life should be lived for myself after all. In order to live a more decent old age, it is very important to save a pension money selfishly. Cai Juying in the TV series "Little Shede", Xi is used to relying on Nan Jianlong for financial management, but she is in trouble after the relationship fades. Selfishly leaving yourself a piece of financial security can give you more confidence in your old age. Money is a kind of confidence, and with economic security, you can be more calm in the face of all kinds of difficulties in life.
03. Leave a peaceful home.
Leaving yourself a place to live and a place to belong is the best thing to give people a sense of belonging. Home is a place of joy, anger and sorrow, a space where a person can completely relax, and a place where the body and mind can fully rest. Be selfish and leave a house of your own, so that life has more space and a more comfortable lifestyle. In old age, if you always send people under the fence, you will be subject to others and live independently. Be selfish, and for whatever reason, keep a home for yourself.
04. Love yourself selfishly and do what you can.
On the road of life, learning to love yourself is the best way to live. When you get old, learn to be moderately selfish, think more about yourself, stop being reckless, and take good care of yourself. When you are old, you can't do a lot of things, so you have to learn to do what you can. If you can't do it yourself, you must learn to refuse, and don't be forced to hold on because of face. When you get old, you should cherish your body and leave more time and energy for yourself. Stop blindly giving for others, but protect yourself. When you get old, you should make life easier, pursue the fun of your age, care for your life, and enrich your soul.
05. The comfortable mentality in old age.
In old age, true decency and dignity are given by oneself. Waiting for others to love you is better than trying to love yourself. Be selfish in moderation, plan for your old age, and don't grieve yourself for the sake of face. Be selfish, leave yourself an economic foundation, have money, have a home, and have more freedom of choice. No matter how the outside world changes, with a home, there is a spiritual belonging. When people are old, the real freedom and happiness is actually to live every day with their own hearts. Live in the moment and enjoy the beauty of the years.