In the first few years of marriage, some couples are like glue, with ears and temples grinding, as if they are in love for the first time, going in and out in pairs, and being envied by others.
However, not everything in the world can be kept as it was originally, and the same is true for feelings. Some feelings are sweet and sweet from beginning to end, while some feelings have been eroded by the years and become something else.
They began to dislike communicating with each other, began to sleep in separate rooms, and began not to ask each other about their whereabouts. Feeling that there is no hope for the days and no hope in sight, the marriage begins to become in name only, and the days become a future.
01. I don't like to communicate with each other.
I don't like you, you don't want to talk to me, you are the most unrelated person in my world, although I loved you before, but that's because I haven't met my current lover, if we meet early, we will definitely get married first, and we will be happy. ”
This is a paragraph from a friend on the Internet who quarreled with his wife after he cheated on him. After his wife heard this, she fell on the sofa and couldn't calm down for a long time.
No one can guarantee that they will only love one person for the rest of their lives, and many times, we will meet someone who likes each other after getting married, which is human nature.
However, people should have some restraint on their emotions, because love can have several times, but marriage can't, only once. If someone cheats outside their marriage, it can only mean that he is not binding on him.
They had forgotten that they had talked to their lover in the past; I forgot that my lover used to get up in the middle of the night to cook noodles for him because he was hungry; Forgot that it was his lover who gave him an umbrella in the wind and rain.
If you love someone, you will inexplicably like to communicate with him, like his voice, like his way of speaking, like his people. And if you don't love him anymore, you won't have communication with him, or even hate him.
A marriage without communication is like a pool of stagnant water, without life. Although the same smoke rises every day, and there are the same sonatas with pots and pans, love is a thing of the past, and the days are coming.
02. Two people began to sleep in separate rooms.
To love someone is to want to have it, this is the feeling that animals have, it is the most basic appearance that should be in the relationship, and it is the initial mode of love. If you don't love someone, you don't have the desire for it, and even hate it, and it begins to sleep in separate rooms.
The first love between husband and wife is sweet talk in bed, and even in middle age, they will talk in bed. Although the bed is only a few meters wide, it witnesses the truest emotions of the husband and wife, and also witnesses the couple's unlove.
A good marriage is a constant need and constant satisfaction, only in this way will two people be more dependent and occupy the most important position of each other's souls.
People who love each other cannot skip the souls they need and leave each other, and people who don't love each other cannot need each other beyond the souls of affection.
The room can achieve a dream of a husband and wife, and the room can also interpret a joy, sorrow and a clutch, all in my heart.
03. No longer ask about the other party's whereabouts.
If the husband and wife have a good relationship, they will always think about each other in their hearts, and care about where he is and whether he is safe. Couples who don't love each other will not care about each other, and even feel that what they do has nothing to do with them.
After getting married, although we are working alone, doing other things, in the field, etc., the other half who loves you will always care about you.
Even if you are at work, he cares whether you are tired from work; Even if you are on a business trip, he cares about which hotel you stay in and whether it will be unsafe; Even if you're doing something else, he cares if you're in danger or not.
In the eyes of those who don't love you, there are no such emotional benefits, especially after the other party changes his mind, his heart begins to become very small and small, and he can't tolerate your existence.
Love is accumulated little by little, and neither is love. When a person doesn't love you anymore and is completely dead to you, he won't care about you, because he can't find what he wants in you, or he doesn't want what you have, he can find something better than you.
Many relationships in the world are relationships of exploitation and exploitation, and love is the same, when you lose your value in front of him, you will become dispensable.
In such days, even if adults live together for many months and share a pot and a pot, they are still going to be on the same page, and it is a matter of time before they break up.
04, how about marriage, there is no specific result, all the results are hidden in your attitude, you think it should be like this, you think it shouldn't be like this, everyone has an explanation of love in their eyes, and his marriage is directly related to his explanation. Its interpretation is able to shape the image of his marriage.
However, in the animal kingdom, the swan has only one mate for a lifetime, and the crane also has only one mate for a lifetime, which fully illustrates the greatness and sacredness of love.
May you hold one hand, keep your best original intention, and accompany your lover to old age.
*Originated from the Internet invasion and deletion.