There are two sons at home, and for my parents, theirslifeIt's not as good as it could be. Every year during the Chinese New Year, every household is filled with an atmosphere of celebration and reunion, but my family is filled with a kind of melancholy. From the first day of the Lunar New Year to the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, my dad was very drunk every day, as if alcohol could not dispel the sorrow in his heart. When I woke up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, I realized that my dad was lighting a cigarette in the dark, and the faint light revealed the pain in his heart. Then I heard him and my mom whispering and sighing. I know that they are troubled by the hundreds of thousands of loans at home, the laziness of my brother and sister-in-law, and my marriage.
We have two sons in our family, my elder brother was born in the late eighties of the last century and did not marry my sister-in-law until he was 32 years old this year. And I, 26 years old,UniversityAfter graduating, he worked outside for two years, and was admitted to the county seat last year. Getting into the establishment is an amazing thing I fought for my family. When I was young, my father was a talented man in the village, and when he was forty years old, he bought a big truck for long-distance transportation, and the family's economic conditions were quite good for a time. At that time, our family built a magnificent brick house, which attracted the envy of the surrounding neighbors.
However, for some reason, my dad ran long distances for seven or eight years and never saved much money. Later, he suffered from a herniated lumbar spine and could no longer drive, so he had to sell his vehicle. He used the money from the sale of the car and some savings to buy a house in the city, but only paid half of the house payment, and the remaining nearly 200,000 yuan was still borrowed. After moving to the city, my parents decided to rent their family's land to someone else and lived in the city for seven or eight years. For the past seven or eight years, my dad has worked in the insurance business and as a security guard, and my mom has been cooking in the school cafeteria. Their income is barely enough to make ends meetlifeIn the past few years, nearly 200,000 mortgages have not been repaid.
When my brother got married last year, in order to move out of the house for the young couple to live in, they moved back to their hometown, and at the same time asked for the rental land back. At the age of nearly 60, they started farming in the fields againlife
My brother has been idle for a few years. When he was in junior high school, he studied well and was admitted to the county No. 1 middle school with excellent results. However, since his sophomore year of high school, he has been addicted to games and dropped out of school several times. After some persuasion and quarrels, he returned to school, but his academic performance was not as good as before. Eventually, after graduating from high school, he didn't get inUniversity, I didn't find a job, and I was idle all day.
In his hometown, his brother had a girlfriend, and the two lived together for many years, but they never got married. My mother was very dissatisfied with this and persuaded them to get married many times, but my brother always delayed it for various reasons. The year before last, girlfriendPregnancyMy parents thought it was an opportunity and wanted them to get married. However, the girlfriend killed the child and broke up with her brother. My parents were very sad and disappointed about this.
Last year, my brother met his current wife, and the two met not long afterPregnancyFinish. I was working in a field at the time, and when I heard the news, I was happy that my brother was finally able to step inMarriage, with a family of their own. However, things didn't go the way I thought they would.
I heard about my sisterPregnancyAfter the news, my sister-in-law came to my house to find my parents and asked if they agreed to agree with my brother marrying her. My parents were furious and did not approve of their marriage. The main reason is that the sister-in-law is a divorced woman who has a child after marriage, and she has no formal job and no financial **. They were worried that my sister-in-law would be a financial burden on our family, and they didn't want my brother to take over the responsibility of the family.
However, the elder brother is adamant about marrying his sister-in-law, who believes that they have the right to decide their ownMarriage。In the end, our family reluctantly agreed to their marriage at my strong request. The sister-in-law also agreed to make an effort to contribute to the family. But my parents' worries did not dispel their worries about the futurelifeStill worried.
In this predicament, I felt helpless and conflicted. My parents are the people I love the most, and they have done a lot for the future of my brother and me all their lives. Their lives are not well arranged, and the pressures of reality make them frown. And as part of a family, there are too few things I can do.
I know that my parents didn't work hard, and they had a good time when they were younger. However, there are too many dilemmas and problems they face that cannot be solved in a moment. I also understand that as an important member of the family, I should do my part to help them, even though I am not in a position to change the whole situation of the family.
I figured I could start with myself. I can work hard to improve my abilities and strive for better development. I can actively look for a better job and increase my family's income. I can minimize my own expenses and save money for my family. I can be more caring and filial to my parents, giving them more companionship and warmth.
The only thing that worries me is that my parents are old and their health is not as good. I want them to be able to live out their old age healthy and happy, no longer because of itlifeof troubles and annoyances. I want them to feel my love and care and make them feellifeThere is still hope.
Despite ourslifeThere are many difficulties, but I believe that as long as we have steadfastnessBeliefsand hard work, there will always be a day to comeBrightand hopeful. In this process, I hope that the family can be more united, face the difficulties together, overcome the difficulties together, and move towards a better future.