My daughter is in her third year of college and wants to take the postgraduate examination, and the original network ** has not been updated for a long time. I encouraged her not to give up her hobby just because she was preparing for the exam, but to keep updating. But she will defeat me, you yourself are rotten but only tell me to work hard, you have to work hard with me to learn Xi together. I said I'm going to take a swimming coach certificate, although I said that it was very difficult to take the coaching certificate, but my daughter just didn't believe it and simply rejected it. I thought about it, and suddenly remembered my dream of writing since I was a child, then I will learn to write, and strive to be a contracted author, my daughter laughed and agreed, she must have felt that this was a super difficult place, more than she expected to be embarrassed!
A micro-friend knew that I wanted to learn to write, so he sent me an electronic version of ** "Autumn Garden" to recommend to me, and I printed it out for easy reading. Yang Benfen, the author of "Autumn Garden", only started writing in his sixties, and Weiyou posted this book as an encouragement, telling me that as long as I start, it is never too late!Although I was originally learning to write at the request of my daughter, in order to keep up with her, I felt that my lifeless blood was reactivated after I started.
The story of "Autumn Garden" spans a large period of time, from the beginning to the end of the college entrance examination. Qiu Yuan's father was a pharmacy manager and his family was well-off. Her childhood, except for the painful memory of being forced to bind her feet, should be considered happy. In the spring of her twelve, she lost three of her loved ones. The eldest sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law died on the Luohe River cruise, and the father fell ill after the funeral of the two daughters-in-law and died young. In 1932, he married Yang Renshou, a school-level ** of the national ** at that time, without meeting him. In 1937, Suiren was returned to Xiangyin, and he was such a loyal person that he could lie. When he asked for marriage, he said that he had a field and a house, but in fact, he didn't even have a decent home. After returning to his hometown, his savings were defrauded by his cousin's design. Benevolence is graceful and compassionate. During his tenure as the head of the township, in order to help the poor, he gradually pasted up his small belongings. Qiu Yuan worries every day to fill the mouths of the family, and her heart is very anxious. Fortunately, I got a job as a teacher, and within a few days of the good days of the family reunion, the old Sanxi Ying unfortunately died. After Xiying's death, Qiu Yuan didn't eat or drink, kept crying, and had fetal gas. The next night, I gave birth to the fourth son, and the nickname was paid three. In 1949, when the People's Republic of China was founded, the land was divided into fields, and Renshou could not farm, but fortunately Qiuyuan was still teaching. Then help people make clothes, embroidery and other sewing and mending work to supplement the family. During the Cultural Revolution, Ren Shou was arrested for drawing the old official history, and the neighbors even bullied them in a different way, forcing Qiuyuan to take his daughter Zhihua to beg for food. Relying on the help of the parents of the student Xingmei, the cripple who had been rescued by Ren Shou when he was the head of the township also often sent food and help. Survived the hardest winter!In 1960, Ren Shou died, and Qiu Yuan suddenly aged a lot, although he could no longer do anything, he was still the majestic patron saint, guarding Qiu Yuan and this home. In order to make a living, Qiuyuan defected to his eldest brother in vain, met a fellow Hunan villager in the waiting room, and went all the way to Hubei to settle down. Later, he was forced to remarry someone else due to the policy of cleaning up the foreign population. The good news is that husbands, mothers-in-law, and stepsons are all good people. Qiu Yuan thought that the willows and flowers were bright and lived a happy life. Who knew that his son Tian Si drowned in the river when he was in school. This year, Qiuyuan was in her fifties, lost her father when she was a teenager, widowed in middle age, and lost her son in her later years. Poverty, hunger, humiliation, and despair erode her home every day, and if her willpower retreated slightly, she might even give up the idea of survival. She seemed so small and powerless in the face of fate, as if she would be crushed at any moment. But she has been carrying ups and downs in the waves of the times, struggling to survive, and supporting a family!Qiu Yuan's lifelong pursuit is only "a family can live".
What touched me the most about Autumn Garden was that the author wrote about her mother's life, and the author hoped to keep the traces of her mother in this world in this way. Ever since my dad left, I've always wanted to write about my dad. Recording his own legend may be the best memorial to him. Because death is not the end of life, forgetting is!