Facing a situation where your girlfriend is cheating is very difficult and painful, but how you choose and how to deal with the situation depends on your own values and perception of the relationship.
Self-preservation: First of all, think about your own feelings and interests. In the face of cheating, you need to protect your emotions and dignity. Think about whether you are willing to forgive and continue the relationship.
Communicate openly and honestly: If you're willing to salvage the relationship, open communication with your girlfriend is key. Understand the reason for the infidelity and try to understand her thoughts and feelings. At the same time, express your own feelings and thoughts.
Accept or let go: In the face of infidelity, sometimes choosing to forgive is an option, but it requires both parties to work together to rebuild trust and relationships. If you can't accept it or have lost trust, letting go is also an option.
Listen and understand: If you decide to salvage the relationship, you need to give her a chance to listen and understand. Understand her thoughts and feelings, and be open and honest about your expectations for the relationship.
Rebuild trust: Rebuilding trust is an important step. It may take time and effort, but efforts based on honesty and honesty can help rebuild trust.
Seek support: Facing this situation can be lonely and painful, and it may be helpful to seek support from family, friends, or professionals.
Most importantly, make choices based on your feelings and perception of the relationship. Whether or not to forgive and whether to continue the relationship depends on your expectations for the future and values about the relationship. Whatever you choose, make sure the decision is right and acceptable for yourself.