Dealing with situations that your boyfriend's family doesn't like may require patience and wisdom. Here are some suggestions:
Respect and courtesy: Always be respectful and polite, regardless of their attitude. Try not to let your emotions get affected and stay calm and friendly.
Understand the reasons behind it: Try to understand why they are negative about you. Sometimes it can be misunderstanding or unfamiliarity, and sometimes it may be based on past experiences or prejudices. Try to communicate with them and understand their thoughts and feelings.
Show sincerity and kindness: Demonstrate sincerity and kindness through one's actions and attitudes. Don't try to change their opinions, but you can earn their respect and approval with your actions.
Communicate with your boyfriend: Communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend so that he understands your feelings and confusion. But at the same time understand that he may be in a dilemma, trying to find a solution to the problem.
Establish self-boundaries: If their attitude is affecting your mood and mood, establish self-boundaries and seek support. Sometimes it may take some time to deal with the situation.
Seek compromise and balance: Try to find a compromise and balance that keeps your relationship with your boyfriend from being influenced by your family, but also doesn't create too sharp antagonisms.
It can take time and patience to deal with situations that your boyfriend's family doesn't like. It is important to maintain one's dignity and courtesy, and to try to face the situation with kindness and understanding.