After the age of 60, the three kinds of people who should not be associated with are not beneficial to themselves, and the reasons are too realistic
After the age of 60, the functions of the human body begin to deteriorate, and they can no longer do what they want as they did when they were young, and even inadvertently do not take their bodies seriously at all;It is worth mentioning that once a person reaches old age, many things will change, and many people who have known each other are actually not suitable for meeting again.
Some people say that after the age of 60, there are three kinds of people who are not recommended to meet again, no matter how good the relationship is, and it is not good for you!Who are these three types of people?Friends who value happiness in life, may wish to read the following content patiently, I believe it will be very helpful and inspiring to you.
First person: Old school.
With the modern living conditions getting better and better, class reunions are popular, because in the era when students don't get together, there will always be one or two nosy people who always want to find an opportunity to get everyone together and talk about the good things in the past.
Although it is said that the classmates have been reunited after a long absence, in fact, everyone has become a group"The most familiar strangers", there will be a sense of strangeness when meeting. But hold"Live one less day"Many older people will try their best to go to class reunions to see how their old friends are doing.
However, people who have come over believe that the elderly participating in the class reunion actually does more harm than good. Because the essence of the alumni reunion is"Contrast would"and that's it.
For example, you, those who mix well among your colleagues, often have to be like other classmates, use various ways to show their success, wear famous brands, drive luxury cars, these are the basis of operation, plus everyone will also talk about their children, children are now as stable as their jobs, they have been admitted to the family, how many apartments they have, and even what company they have ,..
In short, students with good grades will boast about their superior living conditions so that they can be the envy of others.
On the other hand, those who are mediocre, or who do not have grandchildren for a while, may be looked down upon when attending the party, and it will be difficult to fit into the atmosphere of the party.
Objectively speaking, in the eyes of older people, classmates will inevitably become"The convention shows off"Although everyone is a former classmate, but due to different life experience and economic conditions, everyone's level is not the same, when the era of talking about classmates only for friendship has passed, the old classmate reunion will only increase the trouble of comparison, it is better to see each other than not to see.
The second type of person who does not want to meet is a colleague from the original unit.
Whether you're a manager of a business or a good employee, that's a thing of the past.
At work, colleagues seem to be good work partners or superiors, but in private they are"Competitors"Others at work may be forced to respect you and please you. So, after retirement, if your colleagues no longer contact you, or deliberately push you away at this time, don't go to them again, because you don't know your former colleagues at all, and now they are enemies or friends.
In fact, this society is like this: when you are useless to others, it is easy to be ignored. No matter how good you were when you were in the army, now the situation is different, there is no need to go back to the army.
The third type of person who can't be seen is the former first love.
When people reach old age, especially after receiving a pension and retiring, they begin to live a leisurely life. At this time, the old man can take advantage of the opportunity to be alive and do something that he did not do when he was young to make up for the lost youth.
However, I would like to advise my elderly friends not to think about seeing their first love again in their old age, because it will cause serious harm to themselves and their families.
After all, in the case of reciprocal interactions, both parties now have their own families, and the final consequences of the revival of old feelings will not be appreciated by the children, and they will eventually be"Late festival is not guaranteed", so there's really no need.