Recently, a screenshot of the chat about "Bao Ma is crazy in the group" has been circulating on social **, which has attracted the attention and discussion of the majority of netizens. According to the screenshot, the mother severely reprimanded the child because her child ate a classmate's birthday cake in class, and even considered inducing vomiting for the child. This kind of radical behavior has caused confusion and worry among many netizens, and it has also caused people to have great questions about the behavior of this mother.
However, this is not the only excesses of Bao Ma. According to the content of the group chat, Bao's mother not only expressed suspicion and resistance to the cake sent by her classmates, but also accused other parents of participating in the activity, and called them"Lick the dog"and even concluded that these acts of kindness were poisoning in disguise. Bao Ma also showed extreme vigilance and suspicion of the walnuts shared by her colleagues, and included them in her own poisoningScope。In order to achieve the purpose of inducing vomiting, the mother even strangled the child's throat with her hand, so that the child had to promise not to eat these foods again. This excessive act of control is shocking and frightening.
In the face of such a mother's behavior, the parents who delivered the cake also felt embarrassed and speechless, and could only express it in the group"Very understanding, kudos to her"。This extreme desire to control not only causes psychological pressure on children, but also seriously affects children's ability to interact with others. Children need to be free to contact, communicate, and make friends with the world, and the mother's excessive control only makes children feel frightened and frightened, depriving them of opportunities for self-expression and growth. Bao Ma is healthyDiet's one-sided understanding is also worrying, excessive intake of oil has a negative impact on the child's health, and she gave the child a prescriptionNutritious mealsIt is also unreasonable, too much fruit intake may lead to nutritional imbalance and may even lead to the problem of malnutrition.
This kind of low-EQ speech and overly controlling behavior are just some of the behaviors of Bao Ma, who constantly picks on others, attacks others, and asserts the motives and intentions of others in the group. Such a move makes one wonder if Bao Ma really has friends and whether she can really establish a good relationship with others. This kind of excesses not only brings confusion and pain to oneself, but also unnecessary suffering and distress to children.
Faced with such a situation, many netizens suggested that Bao's mother go to a psychiatrist, hoping that she could get professional help and guidance to find a healthier and more reasonable oneParentingManner. Only by learning and changing their own behavior can Bao Ma create a better growth environment for her children, so that children have more opportunities to communicate and make friends with others, so that children can grow up happily.
So, what is the reason for this mother's excesses and extreme behavior?It can be seen from the screenshots of the chat that Bao's mother is very concerned about the health of her children, and she deliberately chooses the child's food andDietHabits, believing that the food outside is not clean, can have a negative impact on the child's health. This overly worried behavior may be related to the mother's one-sided understanding of health knowledge, she may only understand part of the dangers of food, but she does not fully understand the importance of food to the child's physical growth.
The mother's desire to control her children may also be related to her anxiety and restlessness. In the present daySocialFor the health and growth of children, parents generally have a certain amount of worry and nervousness. Especially in the face of a competitive educational environment and various uncertainties, parents often tend to worry excessively and control their children's behavior. And for this mother, she may feel isolated and anxious for various reasons, trying to gain a sense of security and control by controlling everything about her child. However, this excessive control will only lead to the child's estrangement and alienation from others, and will not be able to work with it normallySocialMake connections.
In addition, Bao Ma's accusation and attack on other parents' behavior, and classify other people's good deeds as poisoning may also be related to Bao Ma's own involution mentality. Involution is the presentSocialA common state of mind refers to the inability of individuals to get rid of competition and pressure, and to reduce everything to profit and competition. And Bao's mother is suspicious and hostile to the kind behavior of her classmates' parents, which is likely to be her concernSocialA radical understanding and contempt for relations. She interprets the kindness of others as an act of poisoning, hiding her own anxiety and inner fear. This involution mentality not only makes it difficult for people to build a good oneSocialRelationships can also have a serious impact on children's social skills and emotional well-being.
In the face of such a situation, how should we view this mother's behavior and how should we respond to her excesses?First of all, we should be understanding and tolerant, and try to understand the worries and confusions behind her behavior from her point of view. Secondly, we can provide her with some advice and help so that she can face up to her problems and find a healthier and more reasonable oneParentingConcept.
For mothers, the first thing is to learn to let go moderately, give children a certain degree of autonomy and freedom, so that they can explore and develop their own interests and hobbies. Parents should provide an open environment for their children to grow up, encourage them to try new things, develop their social skills and help them build wellRelationships
In addition, mothers also need to re-examine their understanding and application of health knowledge. A child's healthy growth requires comprehensive nutrition and balanceDiet, rather than a single control and restriction. Bao Ma can try to learn more about some authoritative nutrition knowledge and formulate scientific and reasonableDietPlan to ensure that your child is well nourished and grows up healthy.
Finally, we should also be mindful of ourselvesParentingProblems that may exist in the process. As parents, we should pay attention to cultivating good emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills, pay attention to children's inner needs and personality development, and give more attention and love to children, so that they can feel the warmth and support of the family while growing up happily.
In general, the incident of Bao Ma's madness has triggered our concern forParentingThinking about concepts and parenting styles also reminds usParentingIn the process, we should pay attention to balance and rationality. We should respect and care for children's individuality and needs, give them full freedom and space, and also pay attention to their health and growth. Only build healthyParentingConcept, give children a happy, warm and free growth environment, so that they can grow up healthy and happy.