Take care of your mouth, don't say 3 words less!
Words are substantial, deeds are substantiated.
In couples, words are often the bridge of emotional communication. However, the power of words can also be easily hurtful. If you want to maintain a good family relationship, it is especially important to control your mouth. Words and deeds are the cornerstone of maintaining the relationship between husband and wife.
Communicate honestly. Honesty is the key to building trust between words. Husbands and wives should be open and honest with each other and share their thoughts and feelings. However, this does not mean that there is nothing to be said and empty words to be repeated. In communication, words should be truthful and credible, so that the other person can understand your inner world.
Avoid pointless quarrels.
Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable, but avoid unnecessary quarrels. One of the things that doesn't say 3 words is to avoid escalating the argument into a war of words. Making wise choices to fight for your rights and maintain your dignity in the midst of arguments is the key to maintaining a stable marriage.
The mouth is the bond of love.
Keeping your mouth in check is actually protecting each other's feelings. The choice of words affects the mutual trust and way of getting along with each other. By having something to say, thinking before speaking, and knowing how to be silent, we can see through a person and the temperature of a family in the details. In the ocean of words, let the mouth become an affectionate bond between each other, and make the family relationship more beautiful.
Taking care of one's mouth is a kind of wisdom and a kind of cultivation. In interpersonal communication, we often encounter all kinds of problems, and the most troublesome of them is the mutual trust between husband and wife. And the building and maintenance of this mutual trust is often closely related to our choice of words.
The choice of words is like a double-edged sword. Sometimes, our unintentional words may cause misunderstandings and even hurt each other's feelings. Sometimes, our warm words can make the other person feel our care and love, so as to enhance the relationship between each other. Therefore, in the relationship between husband and wife, we must learn to choose words and let our words become an affectionate bond between each other.
If we want our words to be more powerful, we must first be able to say something. Before speaking, we should first think about what we want to express and how we want to express it, and express ourselves in as concise and clear language as possible. This will not only allow the other party to better understand what we mean, but also avoid misunderstandings and contradictions that may arise due to unclear expressions.
Second, we need to learn to think twice before we speak. Before speaking, we need to think about whether what we want to express is appropriate, whether it will hurt the other person's feelings, and whether it will destroy the mutual trust relationship between each other. If you don't feel right, learn to keep silent or express yourself in a different way. In this way, not only can you avoid conflicts due to inappropriate words, but you can also maintain your feelings for each other.
Finally, we need to understand that silence is golden. In some cases, silence is the best word. If we don't know what to say or don't want to speak, we can choose to remain silent. This will not only avoid conflicts due to inappropriate words, but also make the other party feel our respect and understanding.
In short, managing one's mouth is a kind of wisdom and cultivation. Choosing words to express our thoughts and feelings by saying something, thinking twice, and knowing how to be silent can make our family relationships better. In the ocean of words, we should make our mouths become affectionate bonds between each other, adding warmth and harmony to family relationships.