Love is actually waiting, doubting, expecting, hesitating, affirming, lost, struggling, missing ......and so on.
It has been said that hormones interact with dopamine to produce an emotion – a mental activity mediated by an individual's desires and needs. Therefore, if two people have this emotion, they can have love. It is also said that maintaining a long-term and comfortable relationship between people depends on commonality and attraction.
In my opinion, love begins to rely on attraction, and love lasts by commonality. Throughout the ages, this has been the case.
Newton, the father of modern science, had only two love fires in his life, but they were not completely burned, so he was alone. This is due to his own personality, but even more so because of the different interests and aspirations of men and women, and Newton was obsessed with scientific research all day long, enjoying it and giving it his all.
Beethoven, the king of symphonies, has experienced many times in love in his life, but he has not been able to enter the palace of marriage. When he was 16 years old, he was obsessed with an aristocratic lady, and his birth class problems led to the collapse of the relationship. Later, he fell in love with a noble widow, but in the end, due to the huge difference in status between the two parties, the love blossomed and failed. And the three love letters to the "immortal lover" have not been sent in his drawer. Beethoven's love objects all came from aristocratic families, class ended all romance, and his life was lonely and sad. Albert Einstein, a giant of science, is not only admired in the field of physics, but also has a staggering history of his feelings. Repeating high school and getting my first girlfriend. Entering college, empathizing with each other, and getting married to their son, their marriage ended due to their parents' opposition, mutual quarrels, and cheating on their first love. Later, during his second marriage to his cousin, he also cheated on him many times. Albert Einstein said that "the most beautiful and profound thing that man can experience is full of mystical feelings", and if he were not a scientist, perhaps he would have become a writer. Tang Dynasty poet Yuan Zhen, he and Wei Cong fell in love at first sight, sympathized with each other, and after marriage, they were even more affectionate and affectionate. "Once the sea was difficult to turn into water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud" is from his "Five Songs of Leaving Thoughts", in order to express his loyalty and nostalgia for his wife. Later, the love story between Cui Yingying, Xue Tao, Liu Caichun and others began because of the attraction of talent and handsomeness, but the ending is also known to everyone. The romance of the poet Xu Zhimo, the representative of the Crescent School, has always been talked about. He broke through the shackles of morality and boldly pursued love, but in exchange for a lot of love. Because Xu Zhimo, as an idealist, has a simple belief and attitude towards life - love, freedom, and beauty. Whether it is the kind-hearted Zhang Youyi, the sober Lin Huiyin, or the arrogant Lu Xiaoman, they all disagree with him.
Dai Wangshu, the "leader of the poetry circle" of the modern poetry school, his three emotional experiences are embarrassing. During his first love, he was wishful thinking, and in the end his bitter love failed;Both the first and second marriages start with enthusiasm and end with sloppiness, all due to the incompatibility of the personalities of both parties and the poor management of the marriage. The love story of "Cultural Kunlun" Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang shows the most beautiful appearance of love, and they achieve each other. The humor master Lin Yutang first married and then fell in love, held the hand of the son, grew old together, and wrote a love story. Therefore, a love worthy of praise will not end, and should not be rested until death. "Love must have a beginning and an end", in fact, it is a very "scum" sentence. It's not difficult to start a love, but it's hard how to protect love. Similar hobbies, similar family environments, and common plans for the future determine the durability of love.