In real life, it is not uncommon for the elderly to remarry. Nowadays, people are much more open-minded and don't care too much about what other people think. As long as they can live the life they want, older people choose to remarry after losing their partner or divorce because remarriage is the best option for them. However, today I want to tell you about a man named ChenAuntiestory. She is a 65-year-old aunt who regretted it after she chose to remarry her father-in-law.
ChenAuntieShe is a person who has not allowed herself to regret since she was a child, but last year she made a decision that she deeply regretted. That decision was to remarry my father-in-law. She thought she could live happily ever after remarrying, but the reality was completely different from what she expected. Not only did she live unhappily, but she also suffered a lot of grievances. Despite this, she could not get a divorce because her father-in-law was her daughter-in-law's father, and if she divorced, her daughter-in-law would be very disappointed. So, in order not to disappoint her daughter-in-law, she can only endure this misfortuneMarriage
ChenAuntieI didn't know my father-in-law well before, because I rarely met and ate together. Until ChenAuntieAfter her wife died, she chose to go to her son's house to care for the elderly, and her father-in-law also moved in. At first, ChenAuntieI feel that I can live a happy life in the company of my in-laws. Her father-in-law cares about her very much, helps her son take care of the children every day, does housework, and gives her gifts. He is a romantic and attentive man. ChenAuntieI am very happy with him and will take care of him. They were happy when they were together, ChenAuntieI felt no regrets marrying him.
However, half a year after remarrying, her father-in-law began to show his true colors and even beat her. One day, she spent 1,000 yuan for an examination, because she didn't think it was necessary to tell her father-in-law, but when he found out, he questioned ChenAuntieThe money is gone. ChenAuntieAfter telling him the truth, he was furious and slapped ChenAuntieface, also scolded her for being a loser. This was something she didn't expect at all, and she was scared, but she could only apologize and promise not to hide it from him in the future. However, this was only the first time that the violence began, after ChenAuntieAlmost every day, he was beaten and scolded by his in-laws, even if he didn't do anything wrong. At one point, she was even beaten to the hospital.
ChenAuntieAfter being discharged from the hospital, he began to inquire about his father-in-law's past, and found that his ex-wife was often beaten by him and even hospitalized many times. Moreover, his violence was not just towards his ex-wife, but also against other people. ChenAuntieFearful, realizing that her and her son's safety might have been threatened. She decided to divorce her father-in-law, but in the face of her daughter-in-law's tears and disappointment, she hesitated.
Eventually, ChenAuntiePatience and protection of the integrity of the family were chosen. She can't disappoint her daughter-in-law, and she can't stand being with her in-lawsMarriage。She decided to endure it further, but to be more careful and avoid conflicts with her in-laws as much as possible. She hopes to appease her father-in-law's temper through her own efforts and make the family more harmonious.
ChenAuntieThe experience is a wake-up call that remarriage is not a one-size-fits-all solution, and sometimes it can bring more troubles. When choosing to remarry, we must carefully consider the character and character of the other party to avoid making mistakesMarriage。Don't ignore your own happiness for the sake of other people's eyes, and be brave enough to make choices that suit you. In family relationships, violence is a serious problem that we cannot tolerate or tolerate. If you are experiencing domestic violence, take steps to protect yourself and your loved ones. The family should be a warm and harmonious place, and we should strive for it.