I saw a ** today, it was Chen Zhixian who specifically told the details of his 16-year marriage, and in the end, he understood all the things they had done over the years, and he really felt sorry for this honest ......man
According to Chen Zhixian, he and his wife Yu met in 2007 through a matchmaker's introduction, when Chen Zhixian was working in Zhejiang, and Yu was at home at that time and had no job.
The first time they met, Chen Zhixian felt that Yu was not fashionable at all, he was a very simple rural person, but he still fell in love with him.
On December 28 of the same year, he and Yu got married, and at that time, Yu was already pregnant, because they had a relationship, so Chen Zhixian never suspected that the child in her womb was not his.
After getting married, Chen Zhixian changed jobs, helped people drive tractors, ate and lived, and only left a little bit of his own expenses from the monthly salary, and then handed it all over to Yu, who took care of the accounts.
At that time, they lived a separate life and relied on phone calls every day.
But in 2021, he began to find clues, usually Yu, there was always something to say on the phone with him, but after that, she began to talk to him impatiently, sometimes at 7 o'clock, she told Chen that she was going to take the child to sleep, and then hung up in a hurry**.
After such a situation appeared three times, Chen had a hunch, and then checked Yu's location and found that she was in a hotel, and Chen immediately drove over.
Arriving outside the hotel, he drove around the hotel, thinking about how to deal with this matter.
At 9 o'clock in the morning of the next day, he saw his wife Yu and a man get off the elevator of the hotel, and then took a room card to check out.
After returning home, he notified Yu's mother's family and told them about it, and many relatives of his mother's family came at that time and gathered together to persuade him and Yu to live a good life, after all, there were three children.
Thinking of the three children in the family, Chen Zhixian chose to forgive Yu for opening a room in a hotel.
As for the man who opened the house, the explanation given by the wife was that it was the boss who introduced the project.
He thought that after this incident, his wife Yu would live a good life with him, but he didn't expect his wife to be so bold.
In December 2021, he found that his wife had taken out a loan of 328,000 behind his back, and he angrily asked Yu what he was going to do with so much money, and his wife's answer was to take out a loan for engineering and investment, and he couldn't help but slap his wife Yu, and it was also the second time he hit Yu.
Yu had a big fight with him after being beaten, and then left the house, and also blocked Chen and Chen's parents, leaving the child and leaving home.
On the day Yu left home, Chen heard from his eldest daughter that Yu had told his eldest daughter that if she divorced, she only wanted the eldest and the third, not the second.
At that time, Chen began to have doubts, when everyone said that the child was not like him, he thought that the child was like an uncle or aunt, and he never thought that the child was not his.
But Yu would even say that as long as the eldest and the third child are divorced, is only the second child his child?
Looking at the treatment of the second child, he was even more suspicious, because in March and April, the second child was still wearing winter school uniform and fleece pants, because she did not have a spring and autumn cardigan, and she did not change it at all, and the eldest and the third child, when they opened the wardrobe, the clothes they did not wear in winter were still new and unworn, but the second child did not even change the clothes of the season.
He moved the idea of doing a paternity test for the child, and he first conducted an examination with his little daughter, because when they were pregnant with their little daughter, they did contraception, and it was reasonable to say that it was impossible to conceive, but Yu said that it might be that the contraceptive measures were not done well.
While waiting for the results, he was still thinking that if Yu could turn back, then he could not open the paternity test results, and they would live a good life.
But after Yu blocked all of their *** paternity test results, everyone in the village knew, including Yu's mother's family, and the youngest daughter was not his child.
He traveled many ways and finally contacted Yu, but Yu told him that the other two children didn't need to do it, because none of the children belonged to him.
Chen Zhixian, who heard this result, collapsed, and beat all his relatives and asked everyone to think of a way for him, what should he do?
After his sister returned, Chen said that he was going to find them (Yu and a third party), but his sister gave him a slap in the face, saying that he didn't want to live anymore.
After that, call the child's homeroom teacher and tell the homeroom teacher that the child should not let them come back after school, because the child is not his.
After the paternity test report came out, Chen began to think about how to investigate Yu's bigamy, he gave various **calls**, and finally a channel in Jiangxi came to interview them.
But he didn't expect that as soon as his wife appeared, he would bring a third party to retaliate against him, not to mention blowing up the windows of their house, and scaring his old father to heart attack**, and now he has severe depression.
Chen Zhixian said that since he found out that his three children were not biological, his parents were also very hurt, his father couldn't sleep all night, and he himself was severely depressed in the second half of the night, drinking to sleep.
So far, he has not worked for two years, and he has borrowed 160,000 yuan!
According to lawyer Chen Zhixian, after this incident, Chen couldn't think about it many times, and had the idea of committing suicide, and even kept a suicide note.
Later, after many persuasions by lawyer Yang, he gave up the idea of suicide and chose to use the law to protect his rights and interests.
In the end, Chen Zhixian also said that he would not stay with the child, because the child was not his, and he would feel a shame if he stayed by his side and was in front of him.
I also hope that everyone will not kidnap him morally, saying that the children are innocent or so on, because he has no morality and no obligation to raise them, and the children's injuries are also caused by their mothers and biological fathers. Article First Publication Challenge
It is said that if you don't suffer others, don't persuade others to be kind.
I saw many people on the Internet saying that Chen should not take this path, he should raise his children, and maybe the three children will give him a pension for the elderly, but as he said, suffering such a big betrayal, even the woman Yu in advance, he can't control his emotions and get excited, leaving the child by his side, whenever he sees the child, he will feel a shame, how can he live?
So!The best way to respect the person concerned is not to tell others what to do, right?