What is happiness? Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Happiness is, having a good body, a bad memory, being simple, being confused, being happy, not talking about before, not thinking about maybe, not talking about if!" This sentence about the true meaning of happiness is deeply true.
A good body
"I once wanted a lot of things, but in the end I found that the best gift was peace and health, and everything else was just icing on the cake".
Yes, people are chasing all kinds of desires all their lives, chasing grades when they were students, chasing a good job after graduation, chasing a house and a car after a successful career, and our hurried footsteps in our lives have never stopped.
But I forgot that a good body is 1, and all the back are 0Without a good body, everything becomes a floating cloud.
In the past few days, the news of the death of our childhood idol Zhou Haimei has been swiping the screen. The cause of death was due to illness. In the eyes of outsiders, she has shiny works, beautiful faces, and wealth that we ordinary people can't reach, which many people can't pursue in their lives.
However, we can't imagine how she has lived in so many years of suffering from illness. If they could, they would prefer to spend money to buy a good body. With it, there is all hope.
A bad memory
I have read such a sentence, "The greatest advantage of people is that their memory is too good; The biggest flaw of people is that they have too good a memory. "The best way to live in life is not to indulge in the past, forget what should be forgotten, and let go of what should be let go!
A person who is always obsessed with the mistakes of the past can easily feel sad and even damage the body.
In Mengxi's written conversation, there is such a story: During the Qingli period, the official Li Jing was demoted to Hunan because of his verbal offense. At that time, after being demoted, most of them could make a comeback. Metropolitan Supervisor Fan Kang thought, since this is the case, then I can help him now, just to save personal favors, and he will definitely not forget to repay me when he comes back in the future.
So, Fan Kang sold all his family property to help Li Jing. His approach really moved Li Jing and promised to repay it in the future.
It's a pity, people are not as good as heaven, Li Jing couldn't afford to get sick when he arrived in Hunan, and he died soon after.
After Fan Kang found out, he regretted that he couldn't blame himself, not only did he not wait for any return, but he also let his savings for so many years be wasted. Fan Kang, who couldn't accept the reality, was depressed all day long, until he finally couldn't afford to get sick.
"Realize the past without admonishment, and know that the future can be chased"., what has happened, if you regret it, it will not help. Then, it is wise to let go of the past, forget the past, and manage the present and the future.
It's hard to get confused
** once said, "I think life has to be confused, so that she can be happier, and it will be easier to be happy."
The greatest wisdom in life is: it is rare to be confused, and wisdom is foolish. Knowing that you can't change things, why be stubborn, confused, and smile away, the clouds are light.
In the film and television drama "The World", Zheng Juan, played by Yin Tao, has a bitter fate but finally reaps happiness, one of the reasons is that she takes the four words "rare and confused" as her principle of doing things.
After Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun were together, while helping her take care of her paralyzed old mother, she also had to raise the children of her eldest sister Zhou Rong, while Zhou Bingkun's mother, enjoying Zheng Juan's care, secretly left her sweater and other precious things to her daughter Zhou Rong, who was far away in a foreign land and had never been filial to her bedside. Zheng Juan didn't take all this to heart, she felt that Bingkun was good to me, this is a big deal, it doesn't matter what else matters, it's worth it for me to do this, or continue to work hard to help take care of the elderly and children. Always happy about his life, and finally gained the respect and love of the whole family. If a person wants to be happy, he can't be too smart, he can't be too stupid, too smart to be guarded, too stupid to be fiddled with, it's rare to be confused, this state in between is the greatest wisdom.
Zhou Guoping said that happiness is a kind of ability. From now on, strive to improve your happiness and be a happy person: go to bed early and get up early, pay attention to your health, and take care of your body; Forget the past, forget the pain, and live in the present; Simple, happy, and hard to get confused.
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