Mr. Yang Jiang's words seem to be a bright light, illuminating our way forward. She said: "Don't compare ** when you buy it, don't regret it if you eat it, don't suspect it if you love it, don't denigrate it if you scatter it, everything is just to pay for your choice!".This is not only an attitude towards life, but also a wisdom of life. I will now talk about my understanding and feelings around this topic.
1. Don't compare if you buy it**.
In life, we often encounter such a situation: after buying a thing, we find that the ** in other places is cheaper, so we begin to feel unbalanced and even regretful. However, Mr. Yang Jiang told us not to compare ** when we buy it. Because, every purchase is a choice, and every choice has a reason and motivation behind it. Maybe it's because of a liking, maybe it's because of a need, maybe it's because it's impulsive. But in any case, since you have made your choice, you must be responsible for your choice, don't care about the gains and losses, and don't regret it. Because in this world, there is no absolute right or wrong, only suitable and unsuitable. As long as we buy something that satisfies our needs or brings us pleasure, then this ** is reasonable.
2. Don't regret eating it.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Don't regret eating it. "This is a reminder for us. In life, we will always encounter a variety of delicacies. Sometimes, we indulge ourselves for the sake of a momentary appetite, only to regret it later. However, we should understand that food exists to satisfy our physiological needs and enjoy the pleasures of life. As long as we are able to maintain a moderate diet and a healthy lifestyle, then occasional indulgence is okay. It is important that we learn to cherish the happiness and satisfaction of the present moment, and not to pursue the so-called perfection and perfection. Because in this world, nothing is absolutely perfect and extreme. As long as we can maintain inner peace and contentment, then our lives are good.
3. Don't be suspicious if you love.
In love, suspicion is a very scary emotion. It can make an otherwise beautiful relationship full of rifts and contradictions. However, Mr. Yang Jiang told us: "Don't be suspicious if you love. "This is because love is based on trust and respect. If we truly love someone, we should give them full trust and respect. Don't spoil each other's feelings because of some unnecessary suspicions and misunderstandings. We must learn to listen to and understand each other's voices and needs, and tolerate and support each other's growth and development with love. Only in this way can our love last for a long time.
Fourth, don't slander if you scatter.
When a relationship comes to an end, we always encounter a variety of reasons and excuses. Sometimes, we feel angry and disappointed because of the other person's departure, and even slander and attack them. However, Mr. Yang Jiang told us: "Don't slander even if you disperse. This is because every relationship ends with a reason and motivation behind it. Maybe it's because of each other's incompatible personalities, maybe it's because the pressure of life is too much, or maybe it's because each other's needs are different. But in any case, since you have come to this point, you must learn to accept and let go. Don't denigrate the other person, let alone attack the other person's family and friends. We must learn to face the end of this relationship with tolerance and understanding, and recall each other's good times with gratitude. Only in this way can we truly let go of the past and embrace a new life in the future.
Fifth, all of this is just a matter of paying for your own choices.
In the end, Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Everything is just to pay for your own choices. "It's a summary of our lives. We need to make choices in our lives, whether it's shopping, eating, love, or anything else. And every choice has its own reasons and motivations, and its consequences and effects. As long as we can take responsibility for our own choices, do not care about gains and losses, and do not regret them, then our lives are beautiful. Because we know that it is all our own choice, and we are also responsible for our own choice.