In the drama "Thirty Only", Gu Jia was originally a perfect person.
But later, as she came into contact with the wife circle and tasted the sweetness of taking shortcuts, the whole person began to become quick and aggressive.
Some people also understand Xu Huanshan's derailment because of this, thinking that with someone like Gu Jia, the pressure is too great, and the life is too embarrassing.
However, today I won't analyze whether Gu Jia should be responsible for the end of her marriage, I just want to talk about it today, why did Gu Jia become like that?
Gu Jia has an obvious characteristic, that is, she has high requirements for materials.
This stems from the helplessness and panic she had felt before when she had no money.
When Gu Jia was in junior high school, her mother was seriously ill and spent a lot of money.
Later, because her mother didn't want the family to sell her house to treat her, she took the initiative to persuade her husband to give up**.
Gu Jia hated her father because of this, thinking that he was distressed about money so he didn't treat his mother.
Since then, she has longed to become rich herself, so that she can not worry about money.
And this also put her into a very contradictory state.
On the one hand, she always said that the family's fireworks business was like sitting on a powder keg, as long as something happened, it was a fatal event.
On the other hand, she is unwilling to give up the good life that she has worked so hard for.
Therefore, she wanted to close the fireworks factory, but she was reluctant to live a good life, so she couldn't wait to find another better way out.
Just at this time, there were two thrusts in her life:
One is that the wife circle made her feel the sweetness of taking shortcuts.
The other is that Shen Jie's family had an accident and Shen Jie was arrested.
The former gave her hope of changing careers, and the latter exacerbated her fear of running a fireworks company, which in turn brought out her fear of losing her current life.
Driven by this fear, she came up with a strong idea of finding another way to quickly shut down the fireworks factory as soon as possible.
So she hastily decided to take over Mrs. Li's tea garden, not because she was used to taking shortcuts, but because she was dominated by fear.
Because you are afraid that something will happen, you should do everything you can to avoid it happening.
For fireworks factories, no matter how careful they are, the hidden dangers are there, and they can't be eliminated at all.
So if you want to avoid accidents, the only thing Gu Jia can do is to find another way out.
It can only be said that people, once they have fear, they will become easy to be manipulated, and the situation will be dangerous.
In real life, there are many things that suffer because of fear.
For example, when a woman is afraid that she will grow old and ugly, then she will pay attention to what can be done to delay her becoming ugly and old.
At that time, information such as fitness, skin care products, and medical beauty will flood into her life in large quantities, inducing her to consume.
Those with better self-control may be able to consume in moderation.
But if the self-control is a little worse, there may be a situation where you have to spend money by borrowing usury.
There are also elderly people who are easily deceived, in fact, mainly because of fear.
Why do many elderly people spend a lot of money to buy health care products?
That's really not just because of how good the salesmen who sell health supplements are at coaxing the elderlyIt is because they are afraid of old age, death, and physical sin.
Just imagine, if an old man doesn't worry about his body at all and eats and drinks well every day, then he won't listen to those health care product salesmen so much.
Because I am afraid of getting sick, I pay attention to various commercial insurances
Because I am afraid of running out of money, I pay attention to how to make money and how to manage my money
The more scared you are, the easier it is to be pinched by fear and unable to make rational characteristics.
Therefore, Gu Jia took over the tea factory, not because she was insatiable, but because she was tied up by fear at that time and couldn't think rationally.
Everyone may have such a "mistake" time, it reminds us to always ask ourselves what we are afraid of, the more we understand ourselves, the more calmly we can face our fears, and the less likely we are to fall into it.