If there is no debt, how can we meet, all encounters are destined fate.
Origin, you came with joy, in the crowd, just a glance, has entered someone's heart, since then, you have become the most familiar figure in his day, dream.
Love is always short-lived, and sometimes the enthusiasm of the heart has quietly faded before it has time to savor it, as if it was just a good dream.
Yuanluo, the person who used to have eyes full of you, suddenly fell silent, you are no longer his star, no longer the light in his eyes, he seems to have forgotten the love between you and no longer takes the initiative to contact you.
As a woman, you have two options at this time.
One is that you can't let go and continue to entangle, but to a large extent, the ending will disappoint you.
Because, the desperation when love leaves, just like the enthusiasm when love comes, is equally overwhelming.
The other is to let go decisively.
Since love is gone, it is useless to do more, not to disturb, not to entangle, is the last decency.
In my opinion, the latter should be chosen, and if the man no longer contacts you, your response should be these two words: let go.
Defend your dignity
Just as fate is hard to find, happiness is not something that can be obtained casually.
The happiness that belongs to you will follow you, and the happiness that does not belong to you will not be able to catch up with it even if you have been in the world for several autumns.
Therefore, for a person who clearly snubs you, in fact, he has denied your value, and in his heart, you are no longer worthy of his love.
If you don't give up and continue to try to redeem yourself, you are asking for trouble, or even providing him with the opportunity to continue to trample on your dignity.
In front of the people who love you, your persistence and dedication will be cherished; But in front of people who no longer love you, your attachment and dedication become cheap and even superfluous.
Those who come should be cherished, those who go should be released, and a thought should be put down, and it is reborn.If fate comes, love well, and when fate is gone, let go.
People must know how to love themselves, in order to protect themselves from injury and ultimately maintain their dignity.
Only those who love themselves are entitled to be respected by others.
Loss hurts us, but it also makes us grow.
Although you have lost a person's love, the growth and detachment you have between gains and losses is not a gorgeous transformation?
One day, when you break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly, you can also become the light in other people's lives and the scene in their eyes.
Give the feelings a calm space
The world is impermanent, and no matter how strong a relationship is, there will be a day when it slowly fades away.
If you can't make adjustments in time, then stop for a while and give each other a space to calm down.
After the precipitation of time, perhaps, the two really recognized their own shortcomings, and made serious changes, and finally let love be reborn, and continue a good story.
Perhaps, the two failed to stand the test of time, and finally saw the irreconcilable nature of their relationship, and finally went to one and two wide in a hopeless wait.
But no matter what, it's the result of careful consideration, at least in the rest of my life, I won't regret my loss today.
Sakura message
People must have the ability to turn the page, and if they don't give up, they will draw the ground as a prison.In this world, no one is always happy, and no one can be happy forever.
Sometimes, the way you envy others is nothing more than the result of their self-exculpation.
In life, everything is suffering, and what we should do most is actually to cultivate ourselves.
In the future life, no matter how bad the situation is, we will have the courage to face it positively and the ability not to be alarmed.