I hope that every woman can have her own awakening, live for herself, and live herself

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-29

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There may not be many glorious women, but their existence has given history and posterity a different color.

Do you still remember the movie "The Thirteen Hairpins of Jinling", in which the person who rescued the female student was a woman in history, not the man in the movie.

Many bloggers say that history acknowledges what they did and used their deeds, but is reluctant to acknowledge their gender.

This is a humiliation and contempt for what we have always said about equality between men and women, because many people have never faced up to women and their value.

This is also a very stupid thing, because every woman who has contributed value can never disappear.

Just like the eight women in "I Find Words for Every Thought", their existence not only gives value to thought, but also affirms the value of women.

I Find Words for Every Thought" is written by Liu Haiyan, vice president of the Henan Writers Association, who now works at a university in Zhengzhou.

The book focuses on the outstanding representatives of Western literature and art history: Duras, Beauvoir, Woolf, Salome, Alekseevich 8 women.

They have a strong love for spiritual life throughout their lives, their lives are beyond the logic of the world, and after they have passed, that era has a different spiritual temperament.

We may not be familiar with the eight women described by the author, but their existence has sublimated the intellectual world of Western history.

Take Beauvoir's writing career in the book as an example to see how she started writing and how she came out of that environment.

Beauvoir's full name is Simone de Beauvoir, a famous French writer who wrote many works in her lifetime, including the long ** ** "Female Guest" and "Celebrity and Mercier", and "The Second Sex" written at the age of 40 has constructed her immortal status in world literature.

Beauvoir said in his memoirs that he wanted to be a hero when he grew up.

She knew what she wanted since she was a child, facing life, she wanted to be a writer, facing love, she wanted to love someone who could conquer her with wisdom, learning and prestige.

She loved Sartre, the kind of man she had spoken of as a child, and in the beginning they had a two-year agreement to give each other absolute freedom during those two years.

In order to make love a sublimation, not just a joy at first sight.

This kind of method is very common now, but at that time, a woman dared to sign such an agreement with a man, which shows that her view of love is sober and determined.

It's not that person, no matter how good you are, it's all for nothing.

In addition to love, writing is the most exhausting thing for her, a person does not have time to write, time is only one of the conditions for being able to write.

For Beauvoir, writing was about digging into life, and the war changed her view of the world, and now she can give an outlet for the vastness of her heart.

But it's also a big part of the health, because the person who writes needs a complete space, and to stay in that space for a long time.

So while consuming energy, she also needs nicotine in tobacco leaves to refresh her mind, love to give her inspiration, coffee and cigarettes to give her energy.

But the best thing about her is that she knows what she wants to do.

Sartre was Beauvoir's lover, but he was not a dedicated person, he had many women, but Beauvoir did not spend a lot of emotions on him other than love.

Because Beauvoir said:Jealousy is not an emotion I can have. In the author's words, her body and mind are open to the turbulent years.

Jealousy is a completely unnecessary emotion for her.

But no emotion is absolute, and in the face of Sartre's romance, writing is the only outlet that she can dispel her emotions, or the best way to heal herself.

The article "Female Guest" is the best proof, she has written a lot of unspeakable experiences, and every reader can see the difficulty.

Especially "The Second Sex", which she immortalized in the literary world, every woman can't miss it.

Beauvoir is just one of many bright stars, and in our perception, the value of each person, whether it is a man or a woman, is worth remembering.

This is especially true of the eight women described by the author in the book, whose brilliance is based on suffering, whose glory is based on perseverance in writing, and whose brilliance is due to women's self-awakening.

I hope that every woman can have her own awakening, live for herself, and live herself

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