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"Deep Love and Rain" has brought deep memories to the post-80s and some post-90s. At that time, because Ruping said to Shuhuan, "Shuhuan, I don't care if you retreat to the second", coupled with Yiping's overly active and enthusiastic love, it really made people feel very disgusted.
With the continuous development of society, those viewers who were once deeply trapped in this "crazy for love" concept of marriage and love also suddenly realized that Ruping is actually the heart-wrenching character, and she is not the kind of "green tea" in the eyes of the public.
Regarding the dilemma experienced by Yiping and Ruping in terms of relationship, in addition to He Shuhuan's own hesitation, the main reason is that the old man of the Lu family has been trying to make up for the regret caused by the love he can't get from "Pingping" all his life.
Many of Mr. Lu's wives have the shadow of "Pingping" on their bodies, and the name of each of his daughters is printed with the word "Ping". This kind of superficial affection is actually that he chooses other women as his substitute in order to love someone deeply.
Mr. Lu, a man who has never truly loved other women, has also created a family environment for his children that is difficult to live in harmony with since the day they were born. In his eyes, they are a pair of "twin brothers". The children who only lived with Old Man Lu had a very tense relationship due to the competition between Aunt Xue and Fu Wenpei for the status of the Lu family.
It was also understandable that Aunt Xue would want to evict Fu Wenpei, and although polygamy was common in those days, few people were willing to share their husbands with other women.
Fu Wenpei and Yiping left the Lu family together and have been living a poor life. When Yiping went to "over there" to ask for living expenses, Old Man Lu whipped her severely, which made Yiping angry, and she said, "I want to laugh and see you cry."
These seemingly ordinary words, like a deadly poison, quietly penetrated into the hearts of everyone present.
Yiping, who was injured, met He Shuhuan in the rain, and their story began. Although people are full of blessings for Yiping's experience and deep relationship with He Shuhuan, they forget that the person who was hurt in this relationship is Ruping, who is seen as a superfluous person caught between Yiping and He Shuhuan.
But the truth is that Yiping is actually a superfluous person who is caught between Ruping and He Shuhuan.
Before Yiping and He Shuhuan met, everyone clearly saw the deep emotions between Ruping and He Shuhuan. Shuhuan is the future son-in-law in the eyes of Aunt Xue. He Shuhuan was very happy about the emotional fluctuations that Ruping brought to him at that time, whether it was going out to play or reuniting at the Lu family, although they did not say "I love you" between them, their eyes were full of "I am willing" emotions.
If it weren't for meeting Yiping in the pouring rain, who would He Shuhuan, the two people in the emotional center, choose to hug?In their world, anyone can own their own life. I still vaguely remember that Du Fei accidentally took a photo of Shuhuan and Ruping when they were out playing. Although the two accidentally fell on the grass, the tenderness in their eyes, as well as the way they raised and bowed their heads, revealed a deep emotion
He Shuhuan had a strong emotion for Ruping, and Yiping felt unprecedented joy the moment she entered He Shuhuan's heart.
He Shuhuan felt an irresistible tenderness and a strong and irresistible attraction from the two completely different women.
If you want to say that this kind of feeling, Ruping and Yiping are not wrong, the only mistake lies in He Shuhuan, it is too cruel for him to let two women who love him so humbly.
However, the stupid Ruping only remembered the sentence "I will laugh and see you cry", so she has never been disappointed in He Shuhuan, she has always retained He Shuhuan's place in her heart, and no one can replace her.
Ruping deeply suppressed her jealousy of Yiping and the pain of losing her feelings in her heart. She thinks that He Shuhuan fell into the trap set by Yiping, and she is worried that He Shuhuan will finally see through Yiping and return to her side, and mistakenly thinks that the sentence "If there is no Yiping, I will fall in love with you" is because of her late confession.
Because her mother expelled Yiping and her daughter from the Lu family, Ruping couldn't bear to complain too much about Yiping, and even if she was no longer willing, she didn't forcibly take her away.
She has been waiting quietly until He Shuhuan "retreats to the second".
Because He Shuhuan never directly told Ruping the words "I love you", he never thought that he owed or betrayed Ruping. In He Shuhuan's concept, there is no connection between him and Ruping, and in fact there is no formal relationship, because that layer of secret window paper has never been punctured.
However, in the face of Ruping's deep emotions, He Shuhuan never expressed his refusal, nor did he express disgust at this gentle attitude, what does this mean?
He Shuhuan has a tacit attitude towards Ruping. If Aunt Xue can arrange Ruping's engagement in advance, then the relationship between He Shuhuan and Yiping may increase. However, He Shuhuan longs to have everything, so when he establishes a relationship with Yiping, the innocent Ruping becomes a person who "retreats to the second" and becomes a "superfluous person".
From Yiping's diary, we can observe that although Yiping initially had a crush on He Shuhuan, she did not cater to him so warmly and strongly. This is mainly because she understands the complex relationship between Ruping and He Shuhuan, so she is determined to win He Shuhuan's heart no matter what, whether it's out of revenge or because she is genuinely in love with He Shuhuan. In general, she has already made up her mind about this person.
At this point, I believe that everyone will re-examine and eliminate their stereotypes about Ruping's past, because she is the one who is considered to be the most innocent.
Later, she always appeared beside He Shuhuan in a passionate and just right way, and her purpose was just to find her own part. She never fought with Yiping for anything, but cautiously searched for the person with whom she had a heart, to determine if there was still a chance to return to her again.
The letter written by Ruping when she left the Lu family deeply depicts her heartache and disappointment:
What I love, what I seek.
Indeed, when I ** "Deep Love and Rain" again, Ruping's emotions deeply touched me, and her experience made my eyes moist. Such an innocent girl is nothing more than a love puppet played with by a scumbag. He Shuhuan's attitude towards Ruping is both close and far, which makes Ruping live in a world full of contradictions, and she has always been He Shuhuan's freewheeling person.
Therefore, when Ruping still had small expectations for He Shuhuan, no matter how good Du Fei was beside her, she didn't have time to care, although her feelings for Du Fei were deeply rooted in her bones, she was still confused.
Ruping, like many girls who lose themselves in love, is often scarred by the harm she has done to men like He Shuhuan. She didn't even realize that despite hitting the south wall several times, she was still reluctant to admit that the man in front of her was a man who was not worth her continued efforts for.
He Shuhuan never owed anything to Ruping. Although Du Fei angrily criticized He Shuhuan many times, hoping that he would not hurt Ruping again, He Shuhuan never felt how unbearable or inappropriate he was.
For a man like He Shuhuan, when a woman meets him, she should never choose him. Although he doesn't verbally say "I love you", his actions are always full of ambiguity and ambiguity. Such a man may love you deeply, but what he really loves is himself. He longs for an affair with the opposite sex and hopes to find a partner among the many options. You can never be sure if the last flower he holds in his hand is really himself.
The ambiguous relationship between him actually just reserved a way out for himself and provided him with more room for choice.
In the depths of He Shuhuan's heart, Ruping and Yiping are both regarded as alternate choices. When a person turns around to face another person because he is unsuccessful, he will not hesitate to turn around if there is any noise behind him.
Summary on emotions:
As a woman, neither being Ruping nor Yiping, you should not feel sad or sad because of a man who is hesitant in her relationship.
For men, if you want to make a choice, choose the man who is always willing to stand by your side, like Du Fei. When you love Him deeply, He will do everything in his power to get you the one He loves. No matter where you go, as long as you are willing to turn around, he will stand behind you and see you happy, and his smile is even more sincere than yours.
Maybe a man like Du Fei, with nothing, but he will definitely give everything he has to you without reservation, and do everything he can to make you smile. Every action he takes and every word he says is based on making you feel happy and happy, and he always gives you warmth and care.
Is it possible for this kind of man to make your heart ache?This is non-existent.
During the journey of love, women must always maintain a clear mind and clear judgment so that they can get away safely next to the wrong person and avoid being hurt by the person they love. They need to understand that only by letting go of the wrong person can they truly accept the right person.
So, are you fully prepared for the right person that is about to appear?
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