In rural areas, the preference for having sons in the past has led to an imbalance in the ratio of men to women born in rural areas. In some places, the number of single men is significantly higher than that of women, and in some villages there are even dozens or even hundreds of single men. In this kind of situation where there are more men and fewer women, some families are willing to accept divorced women in order to complete their son's marriage, which also forms a certain pursuit of divorced women. In the local area, women who marry for the second time often become the sweets in the minds of many single men, and once there are women who return to the village after divorce, there will basically be people who come to say goodbye.
In addition, women in some rural areas are marrying out, resulting in an increasing number of local young men being single. In their eyes, divorced women usually have mature and stable characteristics, and they know how to deal with marriage and family problems, so they are more welcome to such women.
In the past, in rural areas, people were relatively conservative and traditional, and divorce was seen as immoral. However, with the development of society, the phenomenon of divorce has gradually become common, and people have become more accepting and understanding of this phenomenon. Especially for divorced women, some believe that they are better able to adjust to life and take on family responsibilities after experiencing a failed marriage. Through the failure of a marriage, they know better how to manage family relationships and how to get along with others. As a result, in rural areas, people who marry for the second time tend to be more likely to be welcomed and recognized.
The reason for the prevalence of divorce in rural areas can be explained by two aspects: more men than women and better knowledge of running families. In a place with a more conservative traditional concept such as the countryside, divorce is often regarded as an immoral behavior before divorce, so that many people have been enduring unfortunate divorced marriages in order to avoid being condemned. However, with the progress of society and the change of attitudes, people's attitudes towards divorce have gradually become more tolerant and inclusive. In rural areas, for various reasons, the imbalance between men and women is more obvious, with a large number of single men and some women choosing to divorce after unfortunate marriages. In this case, women in second marriages have become a popular object, because they have experienced a failed marriage and have rich experience and more rational thinking about marriage and family issues. Therefore, in rural areas, people have a certain recognition and support for people who marry for the second time.
On the other hand, divorced people know better how to run a family. They have learned valuable lessons from the failure of their first marriage and have a deeper understanding of how to run and maintain a marriage. They pay more attention to the maintenance of family relationships and communication between family members, and know how to deal with issues such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife quarrels. This makes them more mature and stable in their second marriage, able to deal with various conflicts and problems in the family, and bring more harmony and happiness to the family.
To sum up, the main reasons for the common divorce in rural areas and the popularity of second marriages are mainly due to the fact that there are more men than women and the advantage of knowing how to run a family. In the case of an imbalance between men and women, divorced women are often sought after in rural areas, and they know how to manage family relationships through the failure of one marriage, which makes second-married people gain some recognition and support in rural areas. However, divorce is not an ideal solution, and choosing a second marriage also requires caution. In rural areas, where there are more men than women, there is still a problem, and for single young men, they need to change their practices and be more active in finding suitable marriage partners. And for people who have experienced the failure of one marriage, they need to be more cautious and rational when choosing a second marriage, and avoid another divorce by getting to know each other well.