Don't be too sad to lose.
A thought becomes a Buddha, flowers are blooming, a thought becomes a demon, and the wind is loud.
There is an old Chinese saying that great wisdom is foolish, and people with great wisdom look stupid, but in fact, this sentence is very reasonable. A person of great wisdom, he doesn't care, he doesn't pay back the money he owes me, he doesn't pay it back, he should eat and drink, he should eat and drink, his child can't do well in the exam, he can't do well in the exam, and if he loses money in business, he will lose money!This is called no entanglement, no attachment, no internal friction!Willing to let go, can be put down, can see through, can forget.
Sometimes the most feared thing about life is to be too shrewd, people are not as good as heaven, you can't count God, to be honest, can you calculate how long you can live?Can you tell how long you've been with your current partner?Can you figure out what your child's life will look like in the future?Nothing. This kind of careful calculation, people will live a very tired life, people borrow money from you and don't pay it back, you should sue him, you should find someone to collect debts, and you can also curse him not to die well. As a result, when you do this, your troubles are your own, and in the end, you may not get the money back, and you have anxiety disorders.
If a wise and foolish person can see it, if he doesn't pay me back, maybe he will also have difficulties, maybe he will pay it back in the future, and he won't pay it back in the future, so help him!Thinking about it like this, this is called a thought of blossoming flowers and becoming a Buddha on the ground. You said you can't think about it, isn't that the beginning of your own troubles?Couples are divorced, and many people can't come out of the shadows.
I don't refuse to come, I don't get my luck if I go, and I lose my life. No matter how good the love is, there is a time to fade, no matter how beautiful the face is, there is a time to age, no matter how delicate the roses are, what is there in this world that can always have with you?Nope!Nothing in this world is yours, but God has borrowed it from you for the time being, and you will have to return it one day.
When many people don't understand this matter, they will love to death and live to love what they love, and grit their teeth with hatred. It's either friend or foe, success or failure, gain or loss.
The law of life in nature is like this, spring, summer, autumn and winter cycle repeatedly, life and death, success and failure, gain and loss, and come and go. Just as Yang Shen said in "Linjiang Immortal": "The success or failure of right and wrong turns empty, the green mountains are still there, the sunset is red several times, the white-haired fisherman is on the river, accustomed to watching the autumn moon and spring breeze, a pot of turbid wine is happy to meet, how many things in ancient and modern times are all laughing and talking." "So you don't have to be sad about the loss, because the loss represents the new gain, teacher, I fell out of love, congratulations, a new boyfriend is coming soon. What you need is more awareness and practice, and the real life is called living and learning!True people know how to be wise and foolish!So, people are happier when they are silly!