"Teacher, listen to my explanation", the boy accidentally sent the message to the counselor, and the content was greasy and unsightly
Before entering the university, the relationship between students and teachers is often more divided between superiors and subordinates, and communication is mainly based on academics, and communication outside of Xi is relatively rare. It is not until high school that the academic pressure of students increases, and additional guidance from teachers is needed.
Once entering the university, students will be able to obtain the counselor's teacher, and the private communication will become more frequent, involving leave, reporting, etc. In particular, the class leaders communicate more closely with the teachers. However, while such *** brings convenience, it also provides an opportunity to send the wrong message. Sometimes, due to negligence and not carefully checking the identity of the other party, they rush to click the send button. Such coincidences happen from time to time, and it is not uncommon to send the words that were originally complaining about the teacher to the teacher's classmates. The degree of embarrassment of the message content varies, some may be innocuous jokes, and others may contain some unspeakable "tiger and wolf words" that embarrass the person who sent the wrong message.
The article mentions an episode in which a boy mistakenly sent a message to the counselor, originally to make amends to his girlfriend, but it turned out to be a "baby sorry" to the counselor, which bothered the counselor. After the teacher asked rhetorically, the boy suddenly realized and hurriedly explained. The teacher understood this, but also deliberately teased it to make the boy nervous.
It's normal for couples to quarrel or get into trouble in college. As a counselor teacher, I often encounter sweet moments and daily arguments between student couples. However, when a student sends a message to himself, the teacher may think that the student is expressing gratitude to him out of a moment of narcissism. There are also some teachers who will take the opportunity to preach, emphasizing the establishment of a correct view of love. While sending the class schedule to the counselor, some students sent the teacher a sweet and earthy love word, which caused the teacher to blush. The love life of a college student is full of sweetness, which makes the gossip teacher quite excited.
Sometimes, parents send the wrong message in the class group, because there are too many work groups, and it often makes a mess. What is unexpected is that even a vigilant crowd like college students will inevitably make similar mistakes. Some students directly made a confession of "miss you, husband" in the counselor's message, which made people feel overwhelmed.
Such a straightforward confession is embarrassing, especially considering how often I usually meet with my counselor, how long will it take to completely forget such an embarrassing scene and face my teacher calmly? Therefore, it is best to reply to messages cautiously when your mind is not clear, so as not to be embarrassed by remembering it afterwards.
What makes students even more worried may be some mistakes in the title, especially the kind of complaining mistakes. Some students are obviously complaining about the counselor with their classmates, but they accidentally send such words to the counselor himself, making these students a "conspicuous bag".
In one episode, the teacher wrote a paper version of the material for the student, and on the way back, the student complained to her friend, saying that "her words are too floating", and also attached an "evidence map". The teacher's response was very humorous, and he simply replied, "Floating?" "Let the students feel what it's like to be caught. This makes students realize that the consequences of messaging while walking are unpredictable.
Of course, there are also many college students who have a very close relationship with their counselors, just like real friends. Because many of the instructors have just graduated, they get along better with the students. As a result, everyday jokes are also less formal. Many students envy such a relaxed and happy teacher-student relationship.
Some students are proud of being "cheap" and deliberately ridicule the local love words with the counselor. At this point, the counsellor tends to appear flustered, typing and deleting in the reply box because there is no offensive element in the conversation. This kind of conversation, which avoids offense and pleases both parties, is a good Xi for students who have not yet experienced university life.
The embarrassing spectacle of sending the wrong message is really embarrassing. Students should recognize the importance of maintaining a good relationship with their counselor before college life begins. Once a message is sent incorrectly, how to deal with it properly is also an essential social skill. Students can choose to admit their mistakes honestly and directly, or make amends in clever ways, such as referencing lyrics to divert attention. It is important that students are able to round the pitch and stay calm so as not to make the awkward situation even more awkward.
The relationship between college counselors and students has a significant impact on academic and graduation development. Although high school graduates may not have a deep understanding of this, at the college level, they need to gradually recognize this reality. Counselors may be an important role in school management on the surface, but in reality they also face tremendous work pressure and menial matters. If students are able to communicate in a friendly manner, actively participate in school activities, and take the initiative to help teachers with their affairs, they will be rewarded.
Scholarship slots are one of the obvious rewards. Although good grades alone do not necessarily qualify for a scholarship, students who have excellent grades and are able to earn the appreciation of their counselors will have a better chance of receiving additional rewards. Students need to be careful about their words and deeds and avoid complaining about the counselor, because a positive attitude and positive interaction will bring more opportunities in university life.
Today's topic: Did you laugh at the messages sent by these classmates by mistake?