Times can be your background, but they can't determine your life itself. ”
"Leave a blank space outside of the material and leave room for your spiritual world to settle down. ”
These two sentences are used in:Li YinuoThe body couldn't be more suitable.
Li Yi has too much on himtagsGraduated from Tsinghua University, Ph.D. in molecular biology, chief representative of the Beijing Representative Office of Gates ** Association, Young Global Leader, and the most influential business woman in China in 2020.
Any label can stay safely and comfortably in a certain field in Li Yinuo, but she has made countless unexpected choices.
is so successful in his career, and he is not lagging behind in life.
She gave birth to 3 children in 4 years and successfully balanced her career and family.
What kind of person is Li Yinuo?And how did she do it?
Everyone has a natural good impression of Xueba, and they will also think that children who can become Xueba must have extraordinary talent and efficient Xi learning methods.
But these followLi YinuoBut it doesn't tie up at all.
Li Yinuo was born in a dual-income family in Shandong, because his parents both went to work, he rarely accompanied Li Yinuo, and most of the time, Li Yinuo was basically alone.
It is pitiful not to be accompanied by parents, but it has also cultivated Li Yinuo's independence and a more mature mind than his peers.
When Li Yinuo was 12 years old, she often found her mother crying alone.
The rational Li Yinuo said to his mother:"If you're not happy, you can divorce your father, and I'll live with you. ”
Li Yinuo's words, in addition to shocking her mother, also made her realize what kind of impact her unhappy marriage would have on her children if it continued.
After much thought, Li Yinuo's mother decided to divorce, believing that a single-parent family is always better for her children than an unhappy family.
After the divorce, Li Yinuo followed his mother for a very hard time, but no matter how hard it was, Li Yinuo's mother still supported it strongly.
Once Li Yinuo saw that his mother was exhausted and physically and mentally exhausted because of her busy work, Li Yinuo persuaded her mother:"You can just let it go, why be so tired?”
But the mother said, ""As the person in charge, I have to be responsible for the company and for them, otherwise what will everyone eat?”
A very simple sentence made Li Yinuo remember it deeply, so much so that it affected her future work attitude.
Another time, Li Yinuo took the exam80 points in mathematics, but the other grades are basically full marks, she thinks the overall score is very good, but she didn't expect to go home and be severely criticized by her mother.
It turned out that the 20 points lost in mathematics were not because Li Yinuo couldn't, but because of carelessness and lost scores.
After her mother was furious, she began to reason with Li Yinuo again, don't lose 20 points because of carelessness, it doesn't feel like a big deal, but if you are careless in society, what kind of consequences will you bear?Reality won't give you a chance to do it all over again.
At this time, Li Yinuo also realized the seriousness of the matter, and from then on she began to be a strict self-disciplined and serious and careful person.
Hard work pays off.
18-year-old Li Yinuo received an admission letter from Tsinghua University, and at that moment, all her previous efforts were worth it.
But being admitted to Tsinghua University is not the end, it is just the beginning.
In an institution of higher learning like Tsinghua University, where there are many talents, Li Yinuo did not feel relaxed, but felt pressure everywhere.
She still Xi studied as hard as before, but the results were not as good as before, so she fell into deep distress and anxiety.
At this time, Li Yinuo's mother also quit her original job and followed her daughter to Beijing to work.
Taking advantage of the weekend, Li Yinuo's mother rode a bicycle from the southern suburbs to find her daughter.
When she looked at her daughter's sad face, she didn't ask a word, just invited her daughter to go out for a bike ride with her and enjoy a good weekend.
On the way to ride, the mother and daughter met a seller selling avocados.
Avocados are not only expensive now, they were the same back then.
But Li Yinuo's mother still stopped the car and bought a few extravagantly, ready to enjoy them with her daughter.
Mother talked to Li Yinuo about some inconsequential things, and then enjoyed the ** avocado she had just bought.
Although her mother didn't say a word to comfort Li Yinuo, she comforted her daughter with her actions, making Li Yinuo's irritable heart instantly refreshed at that moment.
After separating from his mother, Li Yinuo seemed to be a different person, and he seemed to have a clearer goal for his studies, Xi, life, and future.
And she also used her own actions to give a satisfactory answer to her mother and herself.
In 2000, Li Yinuo was admitted to the University of California, Los Angeles for a Ph.D. in molecular biology.
Since then, Li Yinuo, a scholar, has opened"Open hanging".Life.
In 2004, Li Yinuo did not become a biological researcher after graduation, so she went to the interviewMcKinsey & Company
What does McKinsey do?
McKinsey & Company isThe world's leading global management consulting firm
To put it simply, it is similar to our domestic training company, which specializes in solving some difficult problems or corporate structure problems of the company, and McKinsey is the world's leading existence.
Li Yinuo's entry into such a company is a completely new field for her, and she has no experience in this area.
The customers of such companies are basically some well-known companies, and they are also in contact with high-end acquaintances, while Li Yinuo is like a novice in the workplace, she is apprehensive and confused.
In order to make herself not look different at work, she went to familiarize herself with many luxury items such as watches and treasures.
With Li Yinuo's efforts, she finally looks no different from the rest of the company.
But only she knows, she stares at work every dayTwo faces, although she is well disguised, she is still weak-hearted.
Soon after, she saw in the industry in large companiesUnspoken rules and unfairness in the workplace
was already unhappy, Li Yinuo wanted to resign, and with her education, it was not difficult to find a good job.
But at this time, a colleague persuaded her:"No matter where you are, you have to follow the command when you work for someone else, unless you can be the one who makes the rules. ”
The words of his colleague woke up Li Yinuo, and if he becomes the one who makes the rules, he will not be at the mercy of others.
After figuring it out, Li Yinuo began to devote herself to the work, and she found that in fact, the work is not so difficult, everything is a "network" relationship, as long as you can stand in the customer's perspective and solve the problems he continues, then your work will be completed.
Later, she was in the spotlight for her outstanding performance in a "data analysis" project delivered by the company.
Since then, Li Yinuo has only been used from a novice in the workplace6 yearsShe succeeded in becoming McKinseyPartnerHe is the Chief Representative of the Beijing Office of the People's Republic of China.
It can be said that Li Yinuo relied on his perseverance and wisdom to successfully fight a turnaround battle in a business field after graduation.
At the peak of Li Yinuo's career, she made another big decision in her life: to get married and have children.
Strong women are almost all in the impression of many peopleCareer dominantstatus, and even a lot of themCelibateOnly in this way will they have more energy to work hard in their careers.
But Li Yinuo is an exception, she not only wants a career, but also a family.
Li Yinuo and her husband met in the university library, and their acquaintance is very similar to the plot of an idol drama.
At that time, her husband was sitting by the window, and the morning sun was shining on his body, making him shine all over his body, and his white shirt, big eyes, and bookish atmosphere all attracted Li Yinuo.
Later, the two fell in love and soon entered the palace of marriage.
Perhaps Li Yinuo's lonely experience when she was a child made her love for her children very much, at the peak of her careerGave birth to 3 children in 4 years
But that didn't make her give up her career and become a housewife.
Not only did she become a partner of McKinsey, but she also had such a lovely child.
This makes Li Yinuo's external imagination even better, not only taking care of his career but also his family.
But there are still many people who don't buy it, and even have such an evaluation of Li Yinuo on Zhihu:"I don't know how many nanny drivers are circling around the child in private. ”
Obviously, everyone is not optimistic about Li Yinuo's ability.
Just when everyone thought that Li Yinuo would continue to stay in her comfort zone, she was no longer young and made another scary decision:Become "a woman who spends money for the world's rich." ”
One day in 2015, Bill Gates had a conversation with Li Yinuo for several hours.
Bill Gates invited Li Yinuo to become Gates' representative in China to do charity.
And Li Yinuo's first question is:"Why do charity?What's the point?”
Bill Gates gave a good explanation, and it was for this reason that Li Yinuo successfully jumped ship and took the initiative to reduce his salary by two-thirds.
It turns out that there are many diseases in the world, but not everyone can afford to see them, and even a certain disease can't be ** at all.
Bill Gates hopes to use his own abilities to save more people.
After a few hours of talking, Li Yinuo saw that behind the glamorous, there are still many people living in dire straits, and she should not live because of material life.
As a result, Li Yinuo gave up McKinsey, which had worked hard for ten years, and successfully joined the ** club.
When he arrived in a new field, Li Yinuo was not afraid, but sought new ways to make his work better.
She used her writing and keen sense of smell to call on more Chinese experts to pay attention to this matter, and even more so"People are stupid and have a lot of money".Let more people understand the true purpose of **.
Li Yinuo's years of work experience make her next work easier.
If McKinsey's work has given Li Yinuo a good material foundation, then the philanthropy of the ** club has made Li Yinuo gain fame and fortune.
And Li Yinuo is not a fledgling newcomer, and there is no time for her to work other new tracks.
But even so, after Li Yinuo worked as a charity for 6 years, he resigned again and embarked on a new track.
It's just that this time she's for the child.
As Li Yinuo's children grow up, she becomes more and more entangled in sending her children to school.
Although private schools are rich in resources, they do not allow children to apply what they have learned.didn't expect a good school, Li Yinuo wanted to start a school by himself.International schools, which dominate Western education, will have an impact on children's future career choices, and she does not want her children to work for other countries.
She combines the advantages of Chinese and Western education to maximize and optimize resources, so that children can have a comprehensive education.
If you have an idea, Li Yinuo will act.
She used the resources and connections in her hands to pull a large amount of start-up capital, and then approved, site selection, enrollment, etc., a series of processes are very cumbersome, but Li Yinuo is happy.
In 2016, Li Yinuo founded"One Soil Education".and put all your energy into the new track.
Nowadays, Li Yinuo often shares education-related ** on social platforms.
For example, her recent announcement of strict requirements for children and acceptance of children do not conflict, what is the essence of education?
Give 10 minutes between classes to children, what can we do?Hot topics such as how to keep children away from electronic devices have received widespread attention.
No matter how many labels Li Yinuo has on her body, she always does one line of love and one line.
No matter what time it is, she has the courage to take it and let it go.
Not everyone can leave their comfort zone and start over track after track.
For this alone, Li Yinuo deserves our praise!