Li Suhua was seriously ill and lying in bed, and Zheng Juan did not consider her reputation and proposed to Zhou Bingkun to work as a nanny at his home. I agreed, but I didn't give her a suitable job. Whether it is the original or the TV series version, I have deep sympathy and high respect for her. My father was an ordinary farmer, and my mother was an ordinary worker. She had gone through the hardships of half her life and was raised by a poor old woman. After the death of her mother, she lived with her brother. was in the mood for love, but unfortunately encountered a ** criminal, and unexpectedly conceived a child. Her husband was killed in a car accident, and her mother worked hard to raise her daughter. After some hard work, they finally gained the right to pursue happiness, but due to having children out of wedlock, their relationship became even closer.
In the process of interacting with people, Zheng Juan never feels that she is doing too much, she is good at thinking about problems from the perspective of others, and shows great patience with the elderly. She said that her work and life are to make her children happy and live a good life. When dealing with housework, everything Zheng Juan did was to help Zhou Bingkun get out of trouble. She said that if she did a good deed, others would feel gratified. Do not pursue long-term interests, and always take the starting point of not taking a small amount of money.
Zhou Zhigang once told his youngest son: In the important matter of marriage, he should choose the right partner according to the advice of his parents. If it's your own child, be sure not to go to someone else. We should not think only of our own interests. Zhou Bingkun didn't consider his family's opinions, and had an intimate relationship with Zheng Juan overnight, although Zheng Juan tried to ** him, but after questioning, he found Zheng Juan's sincerity. Zhou Bingkun adopted a strategy of cutting first and then playing this play, and he deliberately chose to cooperate with the woman he loved deeply because his starting point was sincere emotion.
From a gender perspective, the criteria for choosing women are to be satisfied, to be able to live happily, and to have a compassionate heart. Attaching great importance to family affection, not only pursuing profits, but also carrying out long-term planning from a unique perspective. She chose a man, but chose her favorite career and lifestyle. In many inspection experiences, Zheng Juan has a deep affection for Zhou Bingkun, and Zhou Bingkun is also affectionate to her, and the two support each other. After the two got married, they both wanted each other to be their closest friends. This emotion deeply touched people and made them inadvertently burst into tears. They had a very hard life, and it wasn't fair to these two people.
Perhaps you may think that it is unbelievable, even incomprehensible, for a working-class young man to fall in love with a "widow" who is kind to the family. I have no objection on this point. This imperfect combination unexpectedly ended well. In this world, there is nothing that can change the relationship between people, as long as there is love, there will be no abandonment and harm, and there is no so-called moral problem. However, before they finally came together, these two things that Zhou Zhigang and his wife did were really chilling, as if they violated the basic virtues of people
1 The old man collaborated with others to expel Zheng Juan, and the intentions behind it seem unknown.
Zheng Juan was in the Zhou family and couldn't find a moment of leisure. She understands that it is a merit to share some responsibilities for Bingkun, but she doesn't want to show off in front of everyone, whether it is from the inside out, there are no other requirements for her actions, she just wants to do her best and spare no effort to make Zhou's mother regain consciousness. For Zheng Juan, handling family affairs for Zhou Bingkun is her joy. He longed for her, a happiness that he would never get.
During the more than a year that Zhou's mother was in a coma, Zheng Juan used her slender hands to massage her soon-to-be-mother-in-law every day. She said that she is a very patient and responsible person. Chunyan recommends doing it once a day and on a consistent basis, a practice that can help improve the clarity of consciousness among older adults. Zheng Juan's hard work was finally completed, due to the deformation of the calluses on her fingers, in these more than 400 days, her efforts and dedication were seen in the hearts of the people around her, and they all had deep respect for her. From the initial doubts to the current admiration, the discussion of the relationship between Bingkun and Zheng Juan has come to an end.
Li Suhua suddenly came to her senses and held Zheng Juan's hands tightly. He asked around, first about Zheng Juan's work in the Zhou family, and then about how much Zhou Bingkun offered to hire such a young and beautiful female nanny. After taking care of Zhou's mother, Zheng Juan packed her luggage and returned to Taiping Hutong. After Nan Nanyue left, she burst into tears. Zhou Bingkun witnessed this scene and eagerly asked what kind of major event had occurred. When he brought the question out of the child's mouth, he rushed to the adobe house he knew.
Outside the house, Zheng Juan froze when she saw Zhou Bingkun, and her eyes became red at this time. There was a bead of sweat on her face. The unthinkable happened. Her son and brother woke up, and so did her mother. She happily shared the scene of Li Suhua waking up and sitting cross-legged on the kang, and how she drank a glass of sugar water, a bowl of millet porridge, and ate half a steamed bun. Zhou Bingkun was ecstatic, and his mother also woke up, which was undoubtedly a happy news, and his father and siblings could go home to explain to him. He spoke with deep emotion:
Your kindness to our Zhou family has become deep. This is my biggest thank you to you!As for what is going on between us, there is no obstacle at all now. In the days to come, every member of the Zhou family will deeply respect you, "My God, I really don't know which mysterious force is helping the two of us, I, Zhou Bingkun, am deeply grateful."
If Zheng Juan hadn't been in this serious illness, Zhou's mother might have hung by a thread. She's a woman, a woman's life!Although Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng came from an intellectual background, they were still unable to repay the debts and favors they owed to their mother, which was slightly inferior to Zheng Juan's concern and greetings when she graduated from high school. Her son didn't understand either. Zheng Juan's importance to the Zhou family is self-evidentHow deep is her love for her husband and son?Liang Xiaosheng once used a profound sentence to express himself:
There is a group of women who seem to be angels sent by God to the common people, and as long as they have a deep relationship with a certain family, that family will be rejuvenated, and whether it is an adult or a child, their mood will become more pleasant. This is the woman known as "Champa", who always appears in front of people with a mysterious and noble posture in the impression of people. They may not be real pistachios, but at least they're a bouquet of inextinguishable pick-me-ups.
Heavy blow after blow is coming. Li Suhua's mental state had serious problems, and the sudden unfortunate news once again reminded the people of the Zhou family that life cannot always be as expected. In the hardest-hit area, a family has to endure such tremendous pressure and trials!A warm word can bring warmth for three winters, while a bad word can make thousands of people feel uncomfortable. Zheng Juan was forced to stay and take care of Zhou's mother again, which put her in a difficult situation.
As time passed, Zhou's mother became more and more suspicious, often misidentifying people, and mistakenly taking Zheng Juan for her eldest daughter-in-law, Hao Dongmei. She is even more scared by calling her a "vixen" directly, because complex situations are not only difficult to handle, but the consequences can be very serious if not handled properly. "My daughter-in-law is a good daughter-in-law!In the original work, Zheng Juan experienced many hardships during that time. She works for a company, working more than ten hours a day, and comes home from work to take care of her elderly father and mother. The evil words in Zhou's mother's mouth almost put her in an extreme predicament.
Chunyan's mother avoided this unfortunate event in time and stopped Zheng Juan's urge to leave. After all, Li Suhua has been sleeping for more than a year, and if this symptom occurs, it is likely that there are bad substances in the body. Chunyan's mother, as a relative who had almost become a family member with Zheng Juan, successfully eliminated potential troubles for Zheng Juan. She shared with Bingkun's mother how Zheng Juan took care of her during the time she was in a vegetative state to ensure that the Zhou family did not fall into chaos.
Chunyan's mother joined forces with her female neighbor to praise Zheng Juan's outstanding contributions. At that moment, Li Suhua suddenly changed her face and claimed that her youngest son's salary was eaten by Zheng Juan one bite after another, and she resolutely refused to admit it. Zheng Juan acted completely according to her character, but she didn't expect these words to completely collapse Zheng Juan's mood:
My youngest son is currently single, and you, as a young widow, have been living in my house for a long time with my brother and children, which is not very good for my younger son and you. I think you are a cultured man and should be treated well. If one day someone starts gossiping and you leave, it will be really embarrassing, won't it?Your child, you have to treat him well!”
It's so annoying!"This kid is so pathetic!The reason for Zhou's mother's rejection of Zheng Juan is obvious, she thinks that such a woman entering the door has damaged the reputation of the Zhou family, and she actually chose to exchange with the heirloom jade bracelet for the sake of Bingkun's reputation, which is really disrespectful to people and makes people feel the warmth and coldness of the world. Zheng Juan was "snubbed", as if she had received a stab wound to her chest, and she felt unusually painful.
In those days, an article was not worth investing in, it was denied and deeply saddened. She is a woman who is unwilling to admit that she has bad grades, and in her opinion, good grades are good. Zheng Juan holds this view: even if you no longer have a crush on her, you should not deny her achievements in front of everyone. "I feel like a very good man. She is a woman who is often given cold eyes, and if Zhou Bingkun had not been financially aided three years ago, her son Nan Nan's younger brother might have unfortunately passed away. She would have felt unlucky, but she persevered. When Zhou Bingkun is in trouble, she lends a helping hand, partly to repay his kindness, and partly in the hope that something will be done to make him remember her, even if in the end they can't come together.
The attitude of the old couple was blamed, and it was true.
The small box of the family heirloom was opened, causing some unnecessary distress.
Faced with Zhou's mother's questioning, Zhou Bingkun got a cold response. She said that she didn't want to be a woman without ideals, and she wanted to be a person with dreams. Zheng Juan must leave, our Zhou family cannot tolerate such an inappropriate woman. Bingkun firmly believes that a deep conversation with his mother can lead to a perfect ending. He knew that his mother's illness was her fault, but his mother just didn't listen, couldn't say anything, and even said that his mother was her enemy, his mother was his friend, and his mother was his best teacher. In fact, his thinking was still too simplistic, and his mother was once again bewildered and said the wrong thing. Tears welled up in his face, as if he had been torn apart. He was stunned for a moment, then hugged his head tightly with his hands and burst into tears in front of the kang. He spoke over and over again, and his heart ached like a knife.
In the original work of "The World", Zhou Zhigang's temporary retirement notice alerted Zhou Bingkun, who did not want Zheng Juan and her children to remain in the Zhou family, so he quickly sent them back to Taiping Hutong. He knew very well that this kind of behavior deviated from the basic principles, and Zheng Juan's favor to the Zhou family was unparalleled. He gave his heart to his wife and daughter, left the home to his son, left his daughter at home to take care of him, and went to work himself. It took a great deal of effort and sweat during the period when my mother was recovering from a vegetative state to sobriety, and sending her away at this critical time was not in keeping with his usual lifestyle.
In the preview of episode 13, Zhou Zhigang coldly expels Zheng Juan, one of the elderly couples uses precious treasures to protect their son's reputation, while the other couple drives away the so-called "benefactor" for the benefit of the family, which is shameful and disgusting. Why did Zheng Juan suffer such cold treatment"?Is she really going to be bullied?Fate is really unfair, she took the initiative to invite Ying to come to Zhou's house, she didn't have any personal feelings, she just wanted to worry about Bingkun, what was her fault?
Zhou Zhigang's ruthlessness made me feel very angry in an instant. This child is a typical selfish villain, a person who does not understand family affection and friendship. Even if you are the pillar of the Zhou family, responsible for speaking and managing affairs, you can't be willful. His sons and daughters were all out there, but he shut up his house. His personality was too cold and disloyal to understand the integrity that Zheng Juan had done during the most difficult period for the Zhou family. He was the only woman in the family and the only man. The young son is in prison, who manages the affairs of the family day and night. The wife is in a coma, and no neighbors are willing to lend a hand in the predicament, and it is Zheng Juan, who he doesn't like, who supports the family's daily life.
Because he didn't know anything about the situation, he drove Zheng Juan away without authorization, and behaved too ruthlessly. In her, we see the good and evil sides of human nature. In the work "The World", Zhou's father's behavior is considered to be the most lacking in benevolence. This sudden expulsion is truly heart-wrenching. It is extremely ironic to commit such a heroic act without knowing the facts.
It really doesn't clear to me what kind of family would be so indifferent to those who have kindness to them. His father was a farmer and opened a small tea shop in the county seat, and the business was good. Although Zhou Bingkun did not disclose the family's predicament to his father, Zhou's father, who had been away for a long time, was fully capable of indirectly questioning. The father's attitude makes people feel very strange. In the original work, in order to give his youngest son an explanation, Zhou Zhigang specially bought two catties of tea and bacon. I don't know if such a family is really unacceptable. To be clear, bias has not diminished. He had a good attitude towards his father. From his judgment, if it is a widow, it is a widow;If it is not inspected, it is not appropriate, and there is no need to elaborate too much.
Zhou Zhigang was thoughtful and wanted to go to the Zheng family on a whim, but his character was not simple. He was not grateful for Zheng Juan's support, but to confirm whether Bingkun had told the truth or lied, and to repay her kindness with two valuable items, so that there would be no more debt between the two. In some people's perceptions, secular evaluations take the lead. Zhou Zhigang didn't want his youngest son to get too close to Zheng Juan, it was entirely because he was born in the prominent Zhou family and had a prominent position in the Guangzipian area, so letting the "widow" get started was actually equivalent to lowering his social status
Zheng Juan's appearance was at most voluntary, in the face of the Zhou family's emergencies, she appeared without complaint, without any plans, just to help Zhou Bingkun get out of trouble, after all, she has no blood connection with the Zhou family, why bother. She doesn't need to be reciprocated for her efforts. Zhou Zhigang's selfless dedication and neglect of this kind of selfless is really heart-wrenching. As a strict parent, he treats the benefactor of the family like this, which really destroys the good impression of the family.
3 As long as you persevere, you will be victorious.
After experiencing a huge disaster, Zhou Bingkun fell deeply in love with Zheng Juan and was even more determined to take care of her and Nan Nan for the rest of their lives.
On the day he was released from prison, he directly told Zheng Juan: Nan Nan will become my son in the future. His heart was pierced deeply - her mother was a disabled woman, she had no husband and no children, she was an orphan, and her father had also been blind in a car accident. He didn't want to lose faith in this unfortunate woman who had stood up bravely in his predicament and cared for him. When Zhou Bingkun deeply missed Zheng Juan, his sense of guilt became even stronger.
Fate is full of mercy and provides us with answers. He wants to train his daughter to be a good wife and mother who can take care of her husband, but he is afraid that his daughter will be too squeamish and pampered, which will affect the child's future. In the ten months since Zhou Zhigang returned home, the relationship between him and his son has gradually become cold, and he knows that his youngest son's determination to marry Zheng Juan is indestructible, so he does not want to intervene. He taught Bingkun how to learn how to combine Xi with the dirt and work to remove obstacles. At that stage, Zhou Bingkun felt unable to face Zheng Juan, and Zheng Juan seemed to be waiting for the verdict of fate, and after returning to Taiping Hutong, she lived her life with all her might.
Zheng Juan has patience and resilience, she will not give up on life easily, and even if Zhou Bingkun does not give a clear explanation, she will keep an optimistic attitude and move on. He said he liked such a woman, she was a good man who could make herself better, but not like he loved you and would give everything to someone else. She didn't want to put any pressure on him, because some things were predestined, and the result of the marriage would come sooner or later, and Zheng Juan definitely deserved to be loved deeply by this world.
I deeply support Zhou Bingkun's unwavering heart for Zheng Juan from beginning to end. Before Zheng Juan became the second daughter-in-law of the Zhou family, she was burdened with some baseless guilt because of her care for her adopted son Zhou Nan. Her father was a ruffian, and his son was in business out of town, and he often went to see their children. Eventually, Zhou's father relaxed his thinking, he packed his son's luggage, and personally witnessed Bingkun walking into Taiping Hutong. Here's what he said:
From today onwards, please move to Zheng Juan's home. I know, and I know. If you don't reciprocate kindness, it's immoral. I know she's a very sympathetic woman, but I can't say she's an unrighteous person. Don't think I'm a **, you and Zheng Juan have already cooked the uncooked rice, how could I think of it?If you divorce someone, it's double injustice!If you choose not to marry someone else, it will be a double immorality!Our Zhou family absolutely does not allow immoral people, let alone double responsibility.
I'm going to tell you in all seriousness, no matter how difficult life is, persevere. There are three people over there who need your help, you should give them hope instead of letting them live meaningless days, life is always full of tenderness, and for those who are destined, there will always be those who cherish each other. After more than three years of marriage, my husband and I have had a marital crisis. After Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun received their marriage certificate, their lives became more fulfilling and happy. They are both successful in their careers, but after they get married, they are homeless orphan girls. I think it may have been the deep favor of fate for the two of them, and after all the hardships they have experienced, they have understood the great wealth that misfortune brings.