Oh, I'm such a miserable person, my husband has a good drink, and every time we quarrel because of this. I want you to help me with advice, how to solve this wine problem?What's the clever plan?
First of all, we have to understand why he keeps drinking. Is it because of the pressure of work, or does he just like to hang out with friends?Knowing the reason will give you an idea of what he did. This is not difficult, ask more questions and observe more, see what stage he likes to drink, and how much he can drink each time.
Then, talk to him when it's quieter. Tell him what you feel about your grievances, and tell him what you think about his drinking. Speak as sensibly and calmly as possible, and listen to what he has to say. Drinking alcohol is good, but don't overdo it, it's not good for your health. He will definitely understand your words when he hears you say this, and discuss to find an acceptable solution.
Besides, we have to set some rules and restrictions for our husbands. You can discuss with him, such as not drinking alcohol for a certain period of time, drinking less alcohol during supper, etc. When the regulations are set, they will be implemented directly. Don't say it, this kind of thing is really useful to do, and it can reduce a lot of drunken disputes.
Of course, we're not just waiting. If you really can't get along and can't communicate, then go to a psychiatrist for help. Doctors can provide a lot of useful knowledge and support to help us better cope with this problem.
Finally, remember to stay in a good mood and take care of your health. It's really tiring to deal with this kind of thing, so don't forget to take care of yourself. Find a family friend to talk to, or a workout to de-stress, in short, try to make yourself happy.
Either way, it's been a long journey. We have to be mentally prepared in advance and plan the road ahead. What if there are complications?Who is responsible?That's all we should be considering. As long as you plan well, you are not afraid of all difficulties.
The most important thing is to stay calm and tenacious. Alcoholism is a long-term problem that needs to be solved together. I believe that by speaking well, we can also find a solution that everyone can agree on. Either way, as long as we're willing to take the time, there's always a way to get things done.