The 57-year-old aunt still has charm, and after the conditions were raised, she was photographed by the 61-year-old uncle, and the uncle picked up the treasure
The journey of life is like the ups and downs of the mountains and rivers, only in the baptism of the years and the long time when the sun sets, can we truly be grateful to the former self and bravely bear the imperfections in life. Elderly people have gone through ups and downs to clearly understand what they really want and what they can accept in their old age.
Uncle Wang, 61 years old this year, has just entered retirement, is 180 centimeters tall, and is one of the first batch of police academy graduates. The first half of Uncle Wang's life was smooth, he was admitted to the police academy and technical college, and three years later he was assigned back to his hometown to become a police officer, and then married a beautiful girl in the county town and had a son. The son graduated from college a few years ago, and the wife also ushered in the retirement years. Uncle Wang has been happily urging his son to start a family as soon as possible, looking forward to spending more time with his wife in his old age. However, fate played a cruel joke on them at this time, and the wife was found to have cancer at this time.
Uncle Wang and his wife have a deep relationship and have spent nearly 30 years together. He took a long leave of absence to take care of his wife, but he still failed to save her life. After his wife passed away, Uncle Wang silently helped his son get married, and then he lived alone.
After losing his wife, Uncle Wang really felt the loneliness of life. However, he was conflicted about finding a partner again, fearing that the new pace of life would be out of step and cause more distress.
When the son learned of his father's thoughts, he kept persuading him to meet some new friends, hoping that he would be able to find a suitable partner to spend the lonely time with.
In the end, Uncle Wang accepted his son's suggestion and took the initiative to send an invitation to the matchmaker, hoping that the matchmaker could introduce him to a favorite partner. Uncle Wang hopes that this future partner will have a gentle personality, and although he is not a stubborn person, he thinks that people with a gentle personality are easier to get along with.
The matchmaker thought for a long time, and suddenly had an idea, and hurriedly contacted the 57-year-old Sister Lai. The matchmaker privately thinks that Sister Lai and Uncle Wang are really a match made in heaven, why?
Because the 57-year-old Sister Lai has outstanding appearance!has a standard 168 cm figure, looking from behind, it is completely impossible to see that she is 57 years old, when she turns around, she is fair-skinned, with soft facial features, and her well-groomed eyebrows reveal a gentle and intellectual beauty. Sister Lai has always been the focus of attention, her appearance has attracted many suitors, her personality is gentle and easy to get along with, and she has been highly sought after since she was young.
Sister Lai got married in her early years, and she and her husband were in free love, but after marriage, they found out that Sister Lai was a stone girl. At that time, the level of medical care could not guarantee that Lai would be able to give birth normally after surgery, so for the pressure of the family, Lai's husband divorced her.
Good things don't go out, but bad things spread thousands of miles. After the divorce, Sister Lai's identity as a stone girl has become a well-known secret, and there are many people talking about it behind her back, even if a normal person is a widower, she will not propose marriage again. Therefore, Sister Lai was forgotten in the years.
When Uncle Wang met Aunt Lai for the first time, he was immediately attracted by the temperament she exuded. In addition, Aunt Lai's appearance is outstanding and her speech is decent, Uncle Wang is even more moved and takes the initiative to imagine a better future.
Uncle Wang, who was smiling, said: "Not long ago, several friends invited me to join a trip for the elderly, which is more suitable for our age group, and they will bring their other half with them. Are you interested in travel?”
Hearing the word tourism, Aunt Lai's eyes flashed with excitement: "I also like to travel." Although the long journey is a bit strenuous, it is indeed a rare experience to go out and see and experience the life of a different city. After all, at our age, if we don't go out for a walk now, it won't be so easy when we get old!”
Uncle Wang laughed: "Don't worry, as long as you keep your mood happy and healthy, are you afraid that you won't have a chance to go out for a walk?"”
Yes, yes, it's important to keep your mood healthy!Aunt Lai was suddenly full of emotion.
Aunt Lai admitted to Uncle Wang that she was actually a "stone girl", and her medical level was limited when she was young, and she was not effective. Now that she is old and frail, she doesn't want to go to the doctor anymore, but because of this, the people around her talk about it, so Aunt Lai feels that life is not fun, and she is usually reluctant to socialize.
Uncle Wang told Aunt Lai that life is always full of endless troubles and all kinds of unsatisfactory, but if you keep falling into unsolvable troubles, it will only lead to living in a haze all the time.
Therefore, Uncle Wang advised Aunt Lai: "Don't always dwell on the past, the past cannot be changed, we should devote ourselves to the present life." ”
Uncle Wang told Aunt Lai that if she trusted him and was willing to be with him, he didn't care about her status as a "stone girl". As long as the two can be heart-to-heart, pursue happiness together, and spend a peaceful and happy old age.
After listening to Uncle Wang's heart, Aunt Lai was grateful. She was deeply grateful to Uncle Wang for not pointing fingers at her and commenting on her like her previous blind date. Therefore, she did not hesitate to agree to Uncle Wang's next invitation.
A few months later, Uncle Wang went to the wedding site and generously distributed happy sweets to the guests, expressing his deep gratitude to the matchmaker who skillfully introduced Aunt Lai to him. Out of professional ethics, the matchmaker specially confessed to Uncle Wang about the identity of the stone girl, hoping that he could consider it carefully.
Uncle Wang solemnly told the matchmaker: "At our age, it will be useless to dwell on these issues." As long as the other party has good morality, it is more important than anything!I felt like I had found a treasure. ”
The matchmaker expressed his heartfelt respect for Uncle Wang's honesty and firmness, and wished the old couple a happy one.
This is happiness, it is not only that the other person can feel your sincerity, but also that the other person understands the helplessness of the other person. Only by thinking from the other person's point of view can we truly reach the center of happiness.