Xiao Mo:
Hello, I would like to tell you my story.
My husband and I have been married for more than ten years, and the women around him have not been broken over the years, and I didn't think about divorce at first, but every time he cried bitterly and said that he was wrong, saying that he would change, I forgave him again and again, and he changed his mistakes.
I said again and again that I wanted to divorce, and he used the child as a shield, saying that the child could not live without a father or a mother, so that I should not be so ruthless.
He also picked up the child to cry and make trouble with me, and did not allow me to divorce, and after the two were entangled like this for a few years, my feelings for him became weaker and weaker, and he became more and more blatant, and our marriage was left with an empty shell.
The long-term depression and grievances have made me more and more internally exhausted, longing for someone to pull me and listen to me tell me about my grievances.
At this time, there was really such a person, and it was one of my customers.
When I met him, although he was 59 years old, he was very well maintained, and his appearance was not visible at all, I thought he was about 50 at the time, and I was also surprised when I knew that he was about to be 60.
Although we are ten years apart, this does not prevent us from being friends, he is really good at understanding people, I say something to him, he will listen very carefully, and then give solutions, I felt that he really has the charm of a mature man.
As it is said on the Internet, there is no pure friendship between men and women, and we have slept together after knowing each other for more than half a year.
Because my husband is fooling around outside as a whole, he can't take care of me at all, and his wife goes to look after his daughter's children in other places, so he can't take care of him, so we spend more time together, and slowly, I am not satisfied with being so sneaky, I want to be with him for a long time.
So I wanted to get a divorce, and after I had this idea, I went directly to my husband and brought it up.
Who knows that he is still the same, saying that single-parent families are not good for children's growth, but now I don't want to listen to him talk like this nonsense, and I insist on divorce.
He sensed something was wrong, and quickly found out that I had someone outside.
When he found out that the other party was 60 years old, he called me crazy, saying that I wanted revenge and he didn't have to do it.
I told him that I was not interested in taking revenge on him, that I really loved that person, and he thought I was crazy even more, and he said that he would not divorce, and since we are both cheating now, there is no one who is right and who is wrong, and from now on, we will both cut off the outside and live a good life.
I told him that it was impossible, that I only wanted to be with my lover now, and he couldn't stand up with a smile when he heard this, and he said to make a bet with me that my lover would not marry me.
I couldn't do it, so I asked my lover out and told me that I was going to get a divorce, but he also said I was crazy.
He said that he was 60 years old and didn't want to toss around, and he also said that he had never thought about divorcing his wife, and he also taught me in turn, saying that I should think about my children and not let my children become children of single-parent families.
And since that day, he's been estranged from me.
I really don't understand it now, he's so much bigger than me, I've never disliked it, and I really want to be with him, why should he refuse.
My husband is still alive and dead and not divorced, but I think he knows that I have a lover, even if he doesn't divorce, will he not take me as a wife anymore, is he not divorced simply because he doesn't want his children to become a single-parent family, what do you say I should do now?
Should I get a divorce?
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Sister: Hello, thank you for your trust.
I have to say one thing, that is, you are really stupid.
You actually want to marry a cheating man?
Why do you think a man who sleeps with you in marriage will be a good man and a responsible man?
Why do you think he's true love?
As for your husband, it's really not bad, but it depends on your mood if you can't stand it, then leave, if you think you can still make a living, just live first.
That's what it is, anyway.
These two men are all all the way, or the three of you are all all the way, they are all cheating in marriage, and the most innocent is probably the aunt who is watching her daughter in the field.
After a lifetime of hard work, he was finally stolen.
But fortunately, the old man's IQ is still **, and he didn't think about divorcing for you, otherwise he would be really damned.
If you don't get divorced, it depends on what you want, anyway, if you don't get divorced, from my outsider's point of view, you and your husband really don't have any friendship, so it is impossible to live a good life if you get together like this.
The child is not stupid, he can sense that something is wrong with the two of you, so even if there is no divorce, the child may not be hurt.
In that case, you might as well choose what works best for you.
- Good wishes!