December 29, 2023. As soon as I got home from outside, an obituary appeared on my mobile phone: tears and rain washed the world, and the sad sound shocked the world. The loving mother passed away on December 27, 2023, at the age of 79, and paid tribute on January 2, 2024 (the 21st day of the 11th lunar month) in Nanda Village. Unscrupulous Girl: Du Haiping cried on December 28, 2023. Looking at the obituary, my heart suddenly tightened, and my mind went blank, how could it be?When she contacted Haiping a few days ago, she also said that her mother was in good health.
When I came to my senses, I immediately sent a few words to Haiping: I was shocked to hear that my sister had passed away, and I mourned!The sound and smile are like in front of me, and I can't go to the condolences in person, which is a pity!Send condolences from afar. In a hurry, I could only leave a simple message, and I really didn't know what to say at the time. After a long time of ignorance, I felt a sense of sadness in my heart, and another relative left me, although it was old and died, it was also embarrassing.
It was my second aunt's youngest daughter who passed away, and my second aunt only gave birth to two daughters in her life, and the eldest daughter had already passed away first. The second aunt died very early, I haven't seen it, but fortunately, I have seen the second aunt and two cousins, and I haven't left too many regrets in this life. I have only met my eldest cousin once, that is more than 30 years ago when I first went back to my hometown with my father, and I also stayed at her house for one night. I didn't expect the first meeting to be goodbye, which was a bit cruel.
Now the second cousin who has passed away, and the cousin I have seen the most times. The first time I heard the bad news, what appeared in front of my eyes was what she looked like when she first came to my house: not tall, thin, with a pair of big eyes with **, she looked very elf. At that time, she was in her 20s, I had just entered the first year of junior high school, and I was still a yellow-haired girl, and my hair was thin and thin, yellow and thin, so the most impressive thing about her was that she stayed.
With two large braids.
It just so happens that the title of the poem published by Liu in this issue is "Xiao Fang", which is a poem.
A song that everyone of our age is familiar with: There is a girl named Xiaofang in the village, who is good-looking and kind, with beautiful big eyes. The braids are thick and long. When I first saw this topic, the first thing that came to my eyes was my cousin's long braids and her image at that time. How?I'm a little surprised, is there really something going on?As soon as I thought of her, she was gone, and if that was the case, I might as well not think about anything.
The second time I saw her, almost 20 years later, she was almost 50 years old. My dad and I stayed at her house for several days. My brother-in-law is a doctor in the village, and she runs a clinic at home, so she is naturally a good helper, and her family's economic conditions are among the best in the village, and her life is very nourishing. At that time, her two braids had become short hair, and her hair was already gray and gray, but she was in good health and good looks, and she was busy every day, running around the village, and she was very active, which made a deep impression on me again.
The third time I saw her was in 2014, during the Qingming Festival, I went back to my hometown to bury my parents, and my cousin's two sons and one daughter kept running before and after Zhang Luo. My cousin's daughter is Haiping, my niece, who posted the obituary.
When the funeral ceremony was held, my cousin had to be present in person, but she was half-paralyzed due to cerebral infarction, and she was 70 years old and still lived on a six-story building, and her children did not let her attend, so she waited at home. When it was done, I went home with my nephews. When I saw her at first sight, although she was a little inconvenient to move, she had a ruddy complexion, white and fat, well-dressed, and in good spirits, not inferior to the old lady in the city, and she had a certain temperament.
My cousin was very excited to see me, and when she heard that I was coming, she had been waiting at home for several days, and when we saw our sisters, we all felt unusually cordial, after all, blood is thicker than water, and my aunt has been close for generations, breaking bones and tendons, which is not false at all. Although we rarely see each other, we always think about each other. 10 years have passed since that meeting, and I have not returned to my hometown, and I plan to go back to visit my parents' graves every year, but I have dragged it out again and again, and I have missed the opportunity to get together with my cousin, and in desperation, there is only a sigh.
Shanglian: Secluded Xiu Tuoyun, deep stream with green, water sound ape cry, continuous rhyme;
Downlink: Koi reflects the moon, dazzling shadows and spotlights, boats swing and dance, bursts of waves.