In 2016, after five years of the implementation of the "two-child" policy, my country finally made up its mind and officially announced to the people of the whole country: birth restrictions are fully opened, and each family can have three children. 
As soon as this news came out, it immediately caused an uproar across the country. Countless ordinary couples began to look at each other, discussing whether this unprecedented policy change would affect their own birth plans, and whether they should start thinking about welcoming the arrival of their third child. In fact, the influence of this policy has already slowly penetrated into all strata. Especially among celebrities and celebrities in the entertainment industry, the positive response to the "three-child" policy can be said to have been expected. 
As we all know, no matter what kind of social environment they live in, the traditional concept of Chinese having many children and grandchildren has never changed. And for financially powerful stars, having more children will only bring them extra joy. Director Zhang Yimou and his wife Chen Ting quickly stated on Weibo that "the task was completed ahead of schedule", and they were regarded as the first batch of "three-child" star parents to respond to the call. In fact, as early as 3 years ago, the two were reported by an actress with their real names for "unspoken rules", and ** the existence of a "small family" that had been hidden for 13 years, it turned out that they had already quietly given birth to 3 flesh and blood. 
This news really shocked many ordinary people who are still working hard and can only support one or two children. The stars not only achieved the "third child" early, but also concealed it so calmly for many years, I really don't know whether to be jealous or admired. Among these celebrity parents who respond to the "three-child" policy, it is very common for them to choose to give birth after the year is not confused or after the peak period of childbearing. One of the most typical examples is the 46-year-old Hong Kong star Cai Shaofen. 
Originally, she and her husband Zhang Jin had already given birth to two daughters, but she has always been obsessed with having a son. In the end, she made up her mind to bravely welcome the arrival of her third child at an age that was already not suitable for childbearing. The whole process was very difficult, and it is said that her husband Zhang Jin once dissuaded him, fearing that it would be too much physical burden for a woman of nearly 50. But Cai Shaofen still stubbornly persevered and resolutely decided to give birth to a new life. 
Perhaps it was this stubborn will that made her finally get her wish and give birth to the son she longed for at the age of 46. As an actress who has been in the film for many years, the nickname "Niangniang" seems to be weak, but her indomitable spirit is surprisingly firm. 
Similar to Cai Shaofen, Sun Li also secretly went to Hong Kong to have another baby for Huang Lei after the age of 40. Middle-aged ladies like them, when the best years have passed, still choose to have a late child, perhaps just because they want to see a few more flesh and bones before entering the earth, leaving some regrets. If the birth of "three children" at an advanced age is more of the selfishness and obsession of middle-aged couples, then the big family born in the prime of life is often more lively and vigorous. Like Huang Lei and Sun Li, their eldest daughter Huang Duoduo became popular after participating in a talk show, showing the public such a blessed, lively and lively family. 
Brothers and sisters, you chase me, the oil bottle is overturned, the hen is protecting the cubs, and there is a happy family joy everywhere. Lin Zhiying and Chen Ruoyi, the little couple, directly made their three mixed-race sons popular together, and the triplets nicknamed "Sanxingdui" instantly became an "Internet celebrity brother group". During the school season and festivals, the picture of two people traveling to the countryside with a cigarette always causes a sensation on the Internet. The three brothers are fighting for me, and they are very happy. 
Even though they are often "tossed dizzy", Lin Zhiying and his wife still get comfort and satisfaction from the parent-child interaction in the laughter of these three little guys. There are also some celebrity "three-child" families' education policies, which often attract criticism and controversy from the outside world. Like Zhao Wenzhuo and his wife, the cultivation strategy adopted for their three children is quite eye-catching. 
The eldest daughter was sent to an international school with expensive tuition fees, which doomed her to the path of elite education;The only son has been practicing martial arts since he was a child, paving the way for taking over his father's business in the futureYoung girls are willful and indulgent and can do whatever they want. In the face of such an obvious preference for sons over daughters and differential treatment in parenting, Zhao Wenzhuo disagreed and still went his own way. 
Tong Dawei has also tried his best to hide the fact of his third child from the outside world, for fear that the ** of this new life will break the balance of the family. In fact, the "specialized" education policy of many celebrities is more or less biased. After all, it is not so much a nurturing strategy for the sake of children's future, but an educational experiment to satisfy selfish desires. The criticism from the outside world also stems from the inability to understand whether the needs of the child's own healthy growth are fully considered behind these practices. Among these "three-child" celebrity families, Cecilia Cheung's experience is particularly worrying. In 2011, she and her singer husband Nicholas Tse ended in divorce due to emotional discord.
According to the court judgment, the custody of the two is all attributed to Cecilia Cheung. A person with two young sons drifted overseas, and it took Cecilia Cheung several years to gradually find the rhythm of career development. Just when everyone thought that she had finally come out of her emotional wounds and started a new life, Cecilia Cheung gave birth to her third son again in 2018, and the identity of the biological father of this "little prince" has become an unsolved mystery.
For a while, whether she reunited with her husband, whether she had another new love, and whose kind of child she belonged to became a topic of discussion among the whole people. People speculated frantically about who the man would be, but to no avail. A beautiful and moving woman, who constantly experiences ups and downs on the road of career and relationship, her spirit of enduring humiliation and fighting alone has moved countless mothers.
Perhaps it is precisely because the biological father is not known that people are more worried about the subsequent development of this single-parent family. The ups and downs she has had along the way are also showing the ease of childbirth and the difficulty of parenting. Through the situation of these celebrity "three-child" families, we can clearly see that they, like ordinary people, are also facing many practical problems.
The risk of giving birth at an advanced age, the prejudice against sons over daughters is still subtle, the lack of support for single-parent families, and the pressure of educating and caring for children are self-evident. The opening of the "three-child" policy is by no means a relaxing karma for them. After giving birth to their third child, many celebrities begin to reflect on whether they still have enough energy, financial conditions and love to take care of three or more children and give them a happy growth environment.
There are also many ordinary couples who choose not to have a third child because they deeply understand the limitations of their abilities and resources. Therefore, the policy is always just cold provisions. Choosing whether to have children or not, grasping the rhythm, allowing new life to grow healthily, and avoiding tragedy are the most realistic and important life issues for us as ordinary people. No matter what family you come from, it's a constant theme.