When a man doesn t contact you, it doesn t mean that he gives up, and it may be these reasons, so yo

I've heard a saying:

In fact, nothing is black and white, and there is a gray area between black and white.

First, the work is not smooth, and there is no other intentionThere is such an idea in "Men from Venus, Women from Mars":When men feel annoyed, they like to cower in their own little world, hiding and ignoring anyone. Just like in "Thirty Only", Zhong Xiaoqin was pregnant, but she didn't expect that when she shared the joy with her husband, she got the other party's cold and indifferent attitude, and even her husband cruelly proposed that the child would not come at the right time.

For this reason, Zhong Xiaoqin was very sad, and later something similar happened between the two of them, Chen Yu's attitude of "it doesn't matter" made Zhong Xiaoqin decide to divorce. After the divorce, Zhong Xiaoqin understood why her husband's attitude was very cold, not really cold, but powerless. It turned out that after they got married, Chen Yu was the main economic bearer of the family, and during this period of conflict with his wife, Chen Yu was transferred out of the front line, his status declined, and his salary also declined, there was no way to solve it, and he couldn't take time to think about other things.

In men's minds, career is still very important, and if you run your career well, you will free up your energy to love others. Life is a system, and if it doesn't go well on one side, it will inevitably affect the energy invested in other aspects. When a man is reluctant to contact you, don't rush to the conclusion that he no longer loves you, give the other party a little more time, see the truth in the emotion, and when he completely smooths himself out, he will naturally have time to love you.

Second, I didn't think it clearly, and I wanted to think about it seriouslyWhen you are emotionally up, it only takes a moment for you to look at each other and develop a relationship. However, the relationship that can be deepened can not be determined by just relying on a moment of enthusiasm, the prosperity fades, and what is needed is self-calm. It's like being with my husband just together, and under the effect of the drawbridge effect, they confessed to each other. But after looking back, we didn't think clearly about whether we wanted to go down with each other, so after confessing, instead of dating on the second day, we each lay on the bed at home with our thoughts and thought seriously.

Although it is emotionally high and easy to fall in love, falling in love and getting married are not the same after all. In the adult world, every time you make a decision, you must not only be responsible for the other party, but also responsible for yourself. So, if a man is in a hurry in your life, and he is not in a hurry to find another woman, but says I need to think about it carefully, don't push the other person anymore, don't feel that there is nothing to think about. All you need to do is be quietly there and give him enough time to make him feel that you are worth it.

Some people say:It is a small probability for two people to meet, it is the most beautiful thing for two people to love each other, what they meet is providence, and what they have is happiness. Love needs to be heartbeat, but it is rare for a relationship to last for a long time. Don't easily deny the meeting of two people, and don't easily deny the heart of a man falling in love with a woman. Accept the various changes encountered in love, and seriously feel the comings and goings of love, you will eventually recognize the true meaning of feelings, and embrace love with confidence and bravery.